Why the hell are scorpio men so confusing?

[nina]

First of all I must say that I have never dated a scorpio man before until recently. And im already falling for him. Now after analyzing him I realize that the horoscopes are true about them however he came on so strong and told me that we are in a relatonship(mind you he said this after 2weeks of dating)so I decided to go along. the problem is he doesnt call me enough or really make an effort to be with me, but yet when we are on the phone its as if we see each other every day. Now I know scorpio men need space, but as a Leo woman.... we need attention from our man. Im 22 and he is 29, so maybe it has something to do with that, but I doubt it. I also told him that Im really into him,and im willing to take it seriously however...Im not sure if he feels the same way, and thats because his actions dont show it. do scorpio men say one thing but do another? I mean how many times do you have to tell someone that they are slacking. Also he was in a relationship with a woman who cheated and had a baby on him(that sucks), but he is not sure if it is his. but yet he makes me believe that he is not with her in any sexual way. I belived him, but after reading up on how secretive scorps are... I have no idea what to believe. The sad part is... I told him that I think its best that I see other people and take it slow with him, but he told me that he does not want me with another man, and he only wants to deal with me, and he wont be with me if I date someone else. so like an idiot I told him that I wont deal with anyone else. now u see why I am confused? how can he get upset with me(he was mad when I tried to break it off)when he doesnt give enough affection? am I getting played or wasting my time with him? its only been 2 months and im so tired of this bs. someone please help me or give any advice!! I really like him but im so confused.

[Shauna]

My own opinion, scorpios can be manipulative sometimes for good and bad.. but how long has it been since he's been with the other woman?? Scorpios can be controlling also and just speaking from my own opinion he may be keeping you around for his own "personal" reasons or being a scorpio we like to do things on our time and when we want to..(doesn't sound fair but..) I can't stress enough how a person has to have patience to deal with a scorpio. If this is someone who really interest you and you see potential you may have to hold off on your attention seeking and find something else to do with your time until your man comes around.. I'm sure he will when he's ready. As far as you telling him its best you see other men.. thats not a good idea at all to let him know that but he handled it well by saying he won't deal with you if you deal with other men. You might have to find other things to do to keep occupied.. Yes we can be very confusing but thats when people are trying to figure us out and scorpios are definitley not easy to figure out and it drives people crazy that they can't figure scorpios out.. So, thats why you have to let him come around when he's ready.. Don't be too aggressive with him, and always asking him whats wrong.. because thats probably his natural nature to be the way he is.

[nina]

He was with her for about four years. thank you so much for your opinion. I will be patient, is it best that I continue to call him normally, and show him affection? or should I lay low and let him come around?

[suziebling]

Let him come to you, and patience...oh so much patience is needed to get to the soft inside of the Scorpio male...worth it tho....

[Dallas]

Since he got hurt by this woman that cheated on him he is going to be extra careful not to let that happen again. Trust me, my current Scorpio boyfriend was cheated on by his last bf and I had to pay for it in the beginning just like you are now. If you like him, then you got to stick with him for awhile through the silliness. It's hard I know, but that's what you gotta do. Take it from another Leo. Suziebling is right, let him come to you. Once you get past the silliness it is well worth it cause Scorpios are really softies at heart.

[Mariah21]

wow this relationship sounds like mine..lol..only that i told my scorp just today that i want to see other people..lol..he seems okay with it of course it may be because hes already shut me out, (ima pisces with leo moon) and need to hear his feelings sometimes and some attention this man is the cold fish! not me lol