Scorpio being ridiculous!

[vannessa]

So i've beening playing these hot and cold games with my scorpio for sometime and a few weeks ago he ended it with out saying why? well i found out from his friend that he found out i was with someone way before him and thats the reason... i dont understand what does this person have to do with my scorpio if it was before me and him. And why the games? what is his reasoning for getting mad over something that happen before us.

[Shygirl]

.....So i've beening playing these hot and cold games with my scorpio for sometime.....
.....And why the games?........

mmmm........Do I need to point out the obvious or do you see a connection here???
Hint: It's called 'Tit for Tat'.

[Angeline Elise]

Yeah, you need to come clean before you can expect him to do the same.

[scorpchick]

Did this happen to be anywhere near June 13th? I think something was in the air where scorpio males were concerned that week. I'm not sure they made any sense.

You are totally correct in that it has nothing to do with him if it was way in your past unless somehow that guy had ties to this guy but does the scorp see it that way? Unlikely... hmmm. Have you talked to him since? If so where does it stand? Personally I keep flipping between telling them they're being ridiculous vs ignoring them until they come back - as a scorpio myself I've responded for both tactics in the past but it always depends on the person/situation and I can't make any sense of which works in what case... anyway, let us know what's happened since.

[Dallas]

It's called jealousy honey and that is a huge problem with Scorpios. Trust me, I have been there before and it ain't pretty. My advice would be to not even mention any past boyfriends, flings, etc. around them. It's stupid and ridiculous I know.

[vannessa]

I got the courage to ask him if we could talk since we no longer have interaction he has totally cut any communication with me over this issue with him being jealous but i asked him if he could give me 10 minutes of his time after work to talk that i had some things i need to tell him and his response was "NO" and he said i didnt deserve 10 minutes of his time...... He was so mean and angry with me that i almosted started crying. How can i fix it? I Miss him and Love him!

[Dallas]

Since I have gone through this with my Scorp. on a few occasions, you just have to wait it out. If their feelings for you are strong and they love you, then they do come around. My advice would be to leave him alone for awhile. Don't try and call or talk to him. Trust me, it works.

[vannessa]

it is really difficult becuz i work with him all the time! i wish there was away i could make him understand that i didnt play him and that my feelings were true to him but he is so dam stubborn and angry....

[Hestia]

Well it could be the scorpio jealousy/possessiveness BUT it could also be an excuse. He could be playing you babe, seeing another girl & putting the blame on you in an easy way to enable him to do this while still keeping you on a back burner while he has his fun with this other girl, and when he's done with her you will welcome him back with open arms.

Scorpios are usually very selfish and manipulative. I've experienced it too, but damn it's hard to stay away.

[sara]

In your case Dallas, how long did you leave your Scorp alone?