Another question about Scorpio children

[arf110106]

I know everyone is all wrapped up in the other thread, but If I could get at least 2 or 3 responses from this I'd be happy. :)

I know that Scorpio children tend to mature a little faster than most and know a little more about life than we assume.

So my question is, at what age do little Scorpion children show an interest in sex or start becoming aware of their sexuality? I know of one Scorpio male that said he started touching himself for sexual gratification at age 8. Is that normal?

Oh and just so no one would ask, he wasn't molested or anything like that, he said he just started touching himself and he said it felt good.

[Mary Kae]

Apologies for the TMI, but I started doing that in my toddler years. Like your friend I didn't link it up with anything remotely "sexual," it just... felt good. It was in NO WAY a mature or adult understanding of sex, it happened way before I even comprehended you could do that with other people.

Sexual maturity is about where you are psychologically, as far as respecting yourself and respecting other people... that did not happen to me until MUCH later in life (hell... I'm still n0t 100% there yet!!).

As far as my experience with Scorpios, they tend to be very either/or - I had Scorpio female friends in high school who had experience with the physical act of sex, but I wouldn't call them "mature." You know, lots of high school girls can be found "hot" by older men... doesn't mean you are sexually awakened, sometimes it just means you are being exploited. OTOH there were other Scorp girls who fell into totally asexual personas, like yours truly (Thank you Virgo ascendant!), but there's no telling what was ACTUALLY going on inside their heads...

Was that clear as mud? :)

[Mary Kae]

Yeah, and boiling down my answer to the short version: just because you like the sensations doesn't mean you're psychologically in the place where you're about to go out and start having sex.

Therefore, bottom line: you probably know your kid and what he's ready to hear.

[C]

Mary Kae, so did I and I'm not a Scorpio, although my sun sign is ruled by the same planet as Scorp- Mars. I didn't associate it with anything sexual either, and actually used it mostly as a "trick" to help me sleep since I suffered from pretty serious insomnia as a child. Maybe this is a Mars child tendency?

[arf110106]

Thanks for the input. I just wanted to have an idea of when it might be appropiate to have the sex talk with my daughter.

[Janis]

I think nine years old is a great age to start having somewhat of a talk about crushes and feelings; however, "sex talk" should probably hold off until atleast sixth grade this is when some boys will begin experimenting and will most likely look to their peers for gratification. I remember this is just about when guys began french kissing girls in my school right before junior high yikes!!! Time sure does fly! Right after the beginning of my cycle was when i truly started to get urges and wasn't really sure how to handle them and some girls in my school began having sex for the first time around this time.

[Natasha]

Janis, I think it's only fair too. When I was 9 I got my best guy friend ever (and then one I played with in Long Island all the time), so...yeah. I hated that my mom read my diary once when I was small, and started getting ideas. -_-; And then, even to this day, with anything that even vaguely relates to such things...she makes statements. You shouldn't, why are you interested... Annoys me, because you know I haven't been interested in guys forever, and it's not like I'm gonna go off and do stuff. That's another thing. I can't talk to anyone about sex or my little ideals for relationships, blah blah without getting disapproval. I only wish they'd be understanding.

After your cycle, that happens? ^^; Hm, makes sense I guess. Rr, I had a "false start" when I was 9, at Woodbury common. XDD I was terrified, so, it's best perhaps to let 'em know, just in case. Ah-ha, ha. ^^;;

What bothers me firstly is kisses. XD I...view it as a challenge, and somewhat undesirable. Heh. Weird, but I know more about other things? It's almost like I wanna jump? XD But I'm not gonna do that, no, I can't, won't, nope. It's just...I could ask plenty of things about a kiss before wanting anything to do with it, haha. I'm pathetic. XD

[Natasha]

Ergh...-flushes-

I'm not an actual Scorp, but I vaguely knew about sex when I was 6, mainly because of this kid. sigh. Erm, gratification...at that age, because of what happened, I dunno, I guess I didn't know anything, except that it wasn't the best thing from another person. -shrugs- Didn't know what I was doing, just that it was nice. Gah. Just touch, that's all. Man I shouldn't be here. Continuing, continuing. At 8 I did know what it was. Cartoons were implicit then I 'spose, but also, I saw my parents, er, right? XD So, yeah, I just stood there and asked what I wanted to ask anyway. Wasn't embarrassed, pretty strange. XD When I was 11 I found out how it really is (you know, in real life, outside the movies?), because of darn fanfiction and their "lemons." XD Several months ago I got interested in the concept and everything, and became more relaxed and understanding of it. I wanna respect it, want it to be respected, ch'yah. Doesn't mean I'm gonna read that stuff tho, 'cuz I don't need to know, do I? A guess is fine, and as long as it develops everything, and has a reason to be there, then it's fine.

I'll tell you something tho. You know how they say kids that see their parents naked are less likely to be "scarred" or something like that? My dad just walked around when we were kids, and he still does (doesn't wear pajamas XDD). So I've finally said it. XD

[got2be2008]

scorpio myself i new lots about sex from a early age, this prob as i always wanted to know what my parents wouldnt tell me so i would find out in my own way then go and tell the i knew so they knew how clever i was. (thats wat i thought like when i was young!)
I didnt actually start taking an interest in the opposite sex as early as my friends. First kiss wasnt till about 13 or 14. And it was quite a while after that till i ....... (you can fill in the blank!)
My first boyfriend wasnt until 18 and that lasted four years. (he was sag)
For your scorpio daughter based on my own experiance as a scorp (scorpio sun taurus moon and rising) i would say yes talk to her quite early - she will appreciate your honesty/ treating her maturly. She might hide her feelings about certain points/ or pretend like she not intersted as she might find discussing the subject embarasing (i never tell my mum anything about my relationships - even now at 22!)
i dont know very much about astrology so wouldnt know what part of my chart influenced which things. Hope it helped somewhat tho! x x x

[The Usual Unsuspect]

It's actually pretty common in up to 1/3 of children before school age, Scorpios or not ;)

[Natasha]

Cool! Good. XD