Virgo-Sagittarius

[Jeffrey Kishner]

Discuss compatibility between Virgo and Sagittarius Sun signs.

[Totalsag]

My very first love was a virgo and we were together, living, learning, laughing and growing together. It was a great relationship for years we were young and ended going different directions. I still remember the butterflies...oh I do hope I experience love again.

[MsAristocracy]

A little update.

The weekend (my previous post) before we were to hook back up, he went out of town. To the state where he went to school and where his ex-gf lives. I have not heard from him since. I hope he is ok and if he's back with her that all works out for them. He's a good guy, loving and thoughtful. Deserves to be happy and to learn how to embrace love and not be afraid of it. :)

[Erin C.]

For the past 4 months I've been in a relationship with a Sag/cap cusp (Dec 20) and I'm a Virgo. The best thing about it has been our explosive sexual chemistry. We are very different but appreciate each other's differences, so far. Maybe that could be an issue later? One thing I do know is that I have NEVER had sexual compatibility like this before- it's mind-blowing. It's sad to think we might not be an astrological match and that I might not be enjoying this great physical relationship long-term. Anyone have the same experience? Rather, shed some hope on my future with a Sag/Cap cusper?

[BalancedSag]

My Bday is Dec 21 and I am dating a Virgo of 4 years and yes, this explosive chemistry is evident. The difficulty is that there has been some very trying aspects to our relationship, in the general department to where I do find that we are, in all senses a bad match. I wish that it was easy to walk away but we are both in a financial situation that warrants each others help AND we soooo attracted to each other - this has been tricky!

I feel that there may be a heartbreak on the horizon because it doesn't seem that our differences/difficulties are getting at all solved, and life will have to go on!!! (our life styles are very different, what we want out of life, and he just is NOT motivated enough, he always does as little as possible in EVERY way - he sleeps like a Lion (venus mars in Leo?) which means he does not participate as an equal partner when it comes to tasks and responsibilities and I cannot tolerate that indefinitely. He only works 3 to 6 hours a day - the average is 4; and he doesn't use the extra time to do stuff to help at all - I am working and going to school full time, when I am finally done, no matter how attracted I am to him, I doubt I will ever be able to forget or shake off the memory of how little he did for me when I REALLY needed him most (and there were others that were willing to take the spot that he jumped in on and left it so I didn't get help in other ways that I could have....)

[BalancedSag]

This guy I am dating is a Virgo Sun/Aries Moon. My 1st serious relationship in college was with a guy that was an Aries Sun/Virgo Moon and we had that explosive chemistry also. It was very strong - and he (he was 18!!) had the hardest time with this. When we parted (because we knew that we weren't compatable - and he B.S'ed everything that he said he like just to "capture" me - which I feel the guy I am dating now did too - which I HATE), 1 1/2 years into the relationship, and 2 years of friendship ended. We cried to break up - but he REALLY cried - and it was becuz he knew the physical stuff we had was going to be gone!!! (he told me so). He had venus in Pisces and I don't know if this is what did it but he would cry anytime he was horrendously craving sex - it was such an annoying and manipulative thing. I suppose that is what you get when you mix Aries up with Pisces - it is surprising though, that his Virgo Moon would allow such soppiness - I suppose, maybe if he cleaned out the closet floor and mopped it (he really did this - especially any time his mother was to arrive - and he thought I was crzey for not doing this myself?!!!!), that would make everything okay!

[divalicious]

I have a terrible crush on a saggi/ox...unfortunately he no longer responds to my emails and txt msgs....its not like i text or contact him all the time...every few months...there will be a general/casual nothing remotely "emotional"

the only emotional text was last summer that was to let him know ..after seeing him again after 20 years ( gradeschool reunion) i let him know he still had it goin on..that for him not to be weirded out..that he didnt need to respond... THAT he responded to..said he wasnt weirded out..yanno the usual "im really flattered" then wanted to get our classmates together and have a "REAL" reunion..so i responded letting him know that "crushes" were FUN so cute to have thanks for being sucha good sport, but that i wasnt interested in a reunion.

Since then hes failed to respond to any of my msgs..i sent one in late november (around his bday) no response...again recently -no response. Is there anyone out there who could possibly help me shed some light on this....the curiousity factor is just buggin me to no end.

Was I too casual? Did I come off to strong? would like to know why this sag finds me ..repulsive??? LOL -sighs-

[BalancedSag]

As a Sag, the only thing I would wonder is if there is someone in or entering his life in a more serious way? Is he "single"? You might ask him straight up, if he is available. Sag's like straight forwardness!

[divalicious]

Those Saggie males are incredibly SEXY...-sighs- my sag..came onto me at the reunion...LOL
of course i ran the other way..part of it was on purpose.MOST of it was due to being so SHY/NERVOUS. He left the reunion (from what i heard stomped out) without saying good-bye to anyone. Hence my seemingly emotional text msg ..in that text i also explained why i did that..also including how i thought he was still Hot even after all these years..

Ive heard water signs are a BIG no no for fire signs..which I do believe..Im a Pisces..I have never gotten along with LEOS...whether male or female.

[MsAristocracy]

Hi Divalicious,

You've lost me. Are you a aVirgo or Pisces? Or are you Virgo with Pisces rising? Is your love interest Sagittarius or Leo? Or is he Sagittarius with Leo rising?

My advice for the Sagittarius is to strike up non-romantic conversation. Show your intelligence and open up his eyes to how much more of you there is to get to know other than the" giddy school girl" side of you. Once you intrigue him that way, because he already knows you're beautiful, then you should have no problem RECEIVING from him on a romantic level.

Best,

MsA

[divalicious]

MsA thank you for responding....Im pisces with virgo rising....im so new to this site...I didnt realize ..this discussion was more about virgo/sag couples.


I do see what you are saying...at times when im "heartfelt" he does respond..when i text or email joking around ..he stays mum. Oh well...no response is rather harsh....therefore...Ill just keep it at that...doesnt mean I wont stop fantasizing and daydreaming ....:)

[MsAristocracy]

The thing about it is that in the past ten years men have been enjoying women in this "microwave" society. Hooking up in record timing. In order to show a man that you are interested for more than just a romp or through desperate measures you have to be really patient and put in your work.

It doesn't mean he will be just sitting around focusing on you. Men are intrigued to turn their heads all day long, so you'll have to be strong during this slow period. Just take your time gettting to know him so that he sees you as someone different which is what we all want but often go the wrong way about getting it.

Otherwise, you can just go for it and live out your fantasy with him, there is just no guarantee it will grow into something more. Some things are harder to reverse, but everyone gets lucky at some point.

[divalicious]

I agree with you MsA....I think all relationships require some sort of effort...honestly there are 8 billion ppl on this planet..Im sure theres got to be atleast One or two sags or other signs that will Respond and show some sort of interest without the head games and raging ego.

I was just really curious about this particular sag...after reading my own posts I've come to the realization this guy isnt worth the hassle ..fire and water ..heh..:)

thank you for taking time out to respond and help me shed some light on my situation....Best wishes to you and your saggi!