Cancer going crazy over a Scorpio

[anna]

All right, so i'm a Cancer and I need some advice!!
There is this Scorpio boy that i have been crazy about since the day i met him. I go insane just by the thought of him.. I feel that I would be the happiest person in the world if i was to be with him. We have had many encounters and it is always so confusing.. i become my shy, Cancer self and can never open up. He has known about me liking him for a while now.. but he seems a bit closed up as well and never really shows much affection back to me. There was this one night where I invited some friends over for a kickback party with alcohol .. and the thought of him came up so i decided to get someone to invite him.. i ended up getting so drunk i poured out every little detail on how i felt about him! The next day one of his friends came up to me and told me my Scorpio believed i was crazy.. i was so devastated i couldn't imagine what i had said! Turned out i told him he was incredibly hot too many times? Everyday after that night I was hoping that I would see my Scorpio again or that he would talk to me about it or something.. but i heard nothing of him.
After about a month or so, I figured I would never get a chance with him and that it was the right time to move on.. so i started dating this Capricorn boy that my friend hooked me up with.. we were all right but i would always have my moments of daydreaming "what if" scenes on how happy I would be with my Scorpio.
Last weekend.. [[still dating the Capricorn]] i got invited to one of my friends birthday parties.. and what do ya know? an hour or so into the party.. my Scorpio arrives!
We don't talk for about an hour, kind of shying away from each other. So I decide to break the ice.. "so what makes you think i'm crazy?" haha.
After that remark he started talking and flirting with me the whole night. He ends up asking me why I decided to move on to another guy and forget all about him.. i explain that I felt I would never have a chance with him. He tells me I had him since day one, he would treat me like a princess, drop anything in the world for me, and spend as much time with me as possible unlike my Capricorn that wouldn't even go to a party with me. He kept trying to kiss me [[which was oh so veryyy tempting]] but i explained to him that i would never cheat even though he had been my dream boy. We ended up conversating all the way until 2 am [[began at 10]]. The sad part was that during our whole convo he was intoxicated with a few drinks of alcohol.. so i told him that if he really felt the way he did, he should call me at 12 in the afternoon the next day when sober. He didn't know my number and we didn't have a pen or paper so he told me he would do his best to remember it. He ended up calling me at EXACTLY 12 [[not a minute later]] to tell me last night was amazing.. which made me so incredibly happy due to the fact that we only talked and i hadn't even let him kiss me. After about 7 min into our telephone convo.. the phone ended up disconnecting, and i didn't get a call back..
I end up calling up my Capricorn and telling him i'm not happy with the way our relationship is going and break it off.
Later that day i called my Scorpio up and asked what happened with the phone and he replied that he tried calling back but nobody answered [[which wasn't true because i had the phone with me just about every second of the day waiting for his call and when i was away the caller ID would have caught the call]]. He ended up asking me what i was doing, so i told him i was about to go swimming in my pool.. he asked to come and we agreed on a time. While in my pool, I saw him walking down my street.. but abut 4 minutes later head back towards his place. I figured something happened so i didn't worry too much about it. The next day i called him and asked him what had happened and he explained that he had to pick a friend up from the hospital. So I said it was all right and that i hoped his friend was doing okay, he told me everything was fine and asked if i wanted to hang out with him in an hour. I said yes, and told him to call me then.. no call! I have a feeling that maybe he forgot my number after dialing it that one time and won't admit to it.. or he's just so laid back and mysterious he couldn't call back. What do you think?

[anna]

All right so good news! lol.
Today my Scorpio came and visited for lunch! It was so unexpected.. it made my day! He gave me the best massage [[hehe]] and kept telling me how beautiful. && he we kissed! lol. He told me he had misplaced my number due to the fact that he didn't have caller Id.. or a cellphone at that matter, and that he will have it memorized as soon as possible. hehe. He invited me to a kickback over at his place .. and i'm leaving in about say 25 min? wish me luck!

[ScorpioNights]

Good luck!

[anna]

About a week later, he showed up during lunch and spent the hour with me.. he was so damn sweet, kept telling me how gorgeous i was, how i should be a model, and all these other amazing things..by the end of lunch, i really didn't wanna go, i wanted to sit there all day with him. Later that night he invited me to a kickback with some of his guy friends over at his place and we had a wonderful time just being in eachother's arms.. he had the biggest smile on his face, and so did I. He told me I was scoring major points and that he was so crazy about me right now, that if he saw anyone else talking to me he would end up getting into a prettyy bad fight. He told me to call him right when i got home the next day so we could spend more time together. So calling him was exatly what i did, and we talked for a while, but he ended up having to go and said he promised he would call me later.. did he call? No! So maybe 4 days later i alled him myself and asked him what was up and what not and we had a cute little talk for a while acting like we were crushing majorly.. but then about 20 min in the convo he said he was chillin with some friends so he would all me a bit later.. so i said "promise? cuz.. you said you would call me before.. and you never did?" so he said he promised. Once again, no phone call. His friends say that he doesn't know what he wants.. do you think im being lead on, or do you think i just need to give him some time? What should i do?!

[arf110106]

This is exciting yet nerv racking at the same time! I'm really glad I don't have to go through this anymore. lol

[Sarah]

Wow thats crazy! A whole bundle of emotional games. I wish someone would slap him and you guys could just get together.

[dirtyblonde00]

I have one thing to say with ANY Scorpio man, Proceed with EXTREME caution...this sounds a lot like how things first happened wtih my ex....then he went completely cold and now continues to play the control games 5 months later......guard your heart girl!

[anna]

all right, so after not talking to him forever, yesterday afternoon he showed up at my doorstep! but i was heading out the door on my way to the gym. He said he'd talk to me later.. so when i got home I called him and he invited me over. We spent some time together for about an hour but I had to go home because I had to get up quite early in the morning.He told me to call him tomorrow [[which is now today]] so we could spend some more time together.

[arf110106]

Yea, I agree with dirtyblonde please proceed with caution. Also try to have a life outside of him. I would even go as far as to suggest that you have other plans when he wants to do something with you. Even if you have to lie, don't make it so easy for him. Actually this could be with any man. Number one rule for messing with a male Scorpio is PLEASE don't let him see you sweat. Once they know they have that power (which may already be too late in this situation) he WILL use it to HIS advantage, but to YOUR disadvantage...

[shea]

scorpionic tests my dear =(

just be careful and dont give yourself to him until hes proven worthy =)

[anna]

Kay so i called him yesterday, and he ended up saying he was tired and asked for a few more hours.. so i said all right. I didn't call him those few hours later.. i just had fun going about my day. Then later that day i was outside walking my dog, and he drove by with a buddy. They stopped for a minute and he gazed at me with such loving eyes and asked me for a kiss. =]]
Then he said he was going to drop his buddy off at the bus place and without me even asking him, he said he was going to call me within the next hour when he got home. Unsurprisingly, he didn't call! lol.
I realized that the phone has been my main problem with him.. ha.
Since i'm kind of used to it, and I know he's not really much of a phone person, I let it slide.. but it just makes me wonder whether he'd act the same way towards other promises.

[Shakti]

Hm... perhaps you should make yourself a rule, like if he doesn't call when he says he will, don't call him. I know it's only courtesy to call when you say you will, or when someone asks you to - but he isn't being very courteous in that department, is he?

Stillness made some very good points on the bottom of Page 2.

[arf110106]

Honestly, if a person can't do something as simple as call you when they say they will, then TO ME (my opinion) that says a lot about his character...