Cancer-Sagittarius

[Jeffrey Kishner]

Discuss compatibility between Cancer and Sagittarius Sun signs.

[BossBytch]

I sincerely appreciate the insight of the Sag man from a Sag man point of view. I cannot say that I was easy for him, but once he got me he had me. We made it all the way to 3 1/2 years and I just gave him his out yesterday. Not that it's really an out, I just want to take our "friendship" to another level and I have to give him the distance that is required for him to renew his appreciation for me. I've stayed an intellectual challenge for him, that is what connected he and I together in the first place. And I don't really have a dark-side, I just have clock moments when my point is not getting across. Beyond the stars, moons, and zodiac signs altogether, I am sure that GOD brought he and I together to do just that... "BE TOGETHER!" and he's fighting it, so our individual lives have not been as they should have. Now I've taken the steps to release myself from any visible emotion towards him. And hopejully he will see the difference from the presence and support of me to the NEED to have me in his life on a more profound basis.

But answer me this Sag Man... What if he doesn't come back my way? Not saying that I will can't do without, just saying we both have alot invested in each other and I feel that some other woman could possibly come along and fill that void I've placed there in order for him to hold or fold. How easy is it for Sag men to get over a love, especially one that is real and supportive and dedicated to him? Looking forward to your response!

[canaqua]

aquariuses i don't know...I am soo laughing at that...

I have a good Sag friend...great intellectual conversation...similar ways of thinking and a strange irritation with each other... cold/hot on both our parts...(we both want space...and we want it when we want it...nice to know he's always there though.

[jupiter]

I said i don't know because i don't remember having any kind of interaction with any aquarius girls. I will fill in the blanks as soon as i get t know :P

[jupiter]

I don't know wheather he's coming back or, but i'll give you 2 scenarios. If he comes back hurt thinking that this is some kind of injustice being done to him be ready to hear some kind of sharp truthfulness that will shatter your feelings, if he comes back thinking that it was mostly his foult and you're purely innocent i think he wil come back admiting his mistakes and asking for a mutual solution that you both have to agree on. He will need a lot of explanation too. A sagittarius doesn't get over love easily but that can't stop him from finding another one that he will love truly too. You have to be really comunicative and open with him to make it work also don't mess with his freedom, when people mess with my freedom i tend not to perform good. and i also think you should tell him to watch his mouth and not be that honest if he's a typical sagittarius :P

I almost got invloved once with a cancer girl, she looked beautiful and was also very smart, on IM and online she was the most fun person i ever met, but when it came to actually meeting she was extremely shy and wouldn't speak at all, i would literally force words out of her mouth. I saw her interacting with other people perfectly fine while around me she was a really reserved person, so i came to the conclusion that she doesn't like me that way because i got to the point where i thought i was abusing with trying to make her talk and i am not the intrusive kind of guy. My liking towards her changed from wanting her to be my g/f to having her as a good friend. After a while when i mentioned her that i consedered her as a good friend of mine she got really mad and emotional because she didn't want me just as a friend. We didn't speak for 2 weeks. i found out from her friend that she had been crying and had been really depressed during this whole time. I never intended to hurt that person and would've done anything not to hurt her but i always felt her pushing me away. Some of my actions and words would result in hurting her although that was never the intention so i got away from her to stop what i was doing to her.

[Moonmaiden68]

Its awesome to hear a sag mans point of view towards cancer women! However, the cancers of which you speak are not like me. I'm not really shy - in fact I'm pretty bold. I'm not sure if I understand what you mean by 'easy'? Although I admit to falling really hard when I fall. I do give him as much space as he needs (as I need my space too) and I trust him to a point (but we aren't really in a traditional relationship at the moment) My sag & I get along like 2 peas in a pod when we are together. We both are very sarcastic towards eachother and there is alot of verbal sparring (which I love!) we can talk about everything under the sun which is awesome cos there is never a loss for words. He also can read me like a book (and vice versa) and he knows when I'm in a mood and he knows when to try and cheer me up (which he almost always does!) or when to leave me alone. The only issue 'I' have is the fact that sometimes it's hard for me to express my feelings. When things get real intense and emotional between us, I usually clam up and he usually tries to change the subject to something 'lighter'. But, if there is something that we know we need to discuss in a more serious tone, he listens to me and lets me speak and I do the same for him. I love his honesty towards me. It's very refreshing to have a man be able to admit his mistakes & apologize for his behavior. Now if only things could be the way I want them to be, I would be that happiest girl alive =)

[suziebling]

Its fascinating me all the different interpretations on this sag-cancer relationships.I too am not shy, I do tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, but equally I can hide them too.Depends how confident I feel. I can give the man space as I want it too, but expect togetherness, love and friendship.But my sag was so possessive and controlling, we were initially good friends as well as lovers, and I think thats how we did stay together so long. He could not read me like a book , but interpreted me as he thought , and he moulded me his way, my whole personality I allowed him to change.I too find it difficult to express my feeling when the subject is intense and emotional. He just fed on that and it became very volatile, making me use emotions that were just not my style, consequently sending me bananas.Nothing was ever his fault, and always found a reason to blame someone else, nothing was ever good enough, the grass was always greener elsewhere and he could not make a decision. Forcing me to make them, so that when they went wrong, I was there to blame. I find Saggs, weak, indecisive volatile people, and this is not just based on this one man. But maybe this is why there seems diverse opinion s here....

[Shakti]

but when it came to actually meeting she was extremely shy and wouldn't speak at all, i would literally force words out of her mouth. I saw her interacting with other people perfectly fine while around me she was a really reserved person,

Performance anxiety, she must've really liked you.

[jupiter]

Yeah, i found out after about that, I wanted it to get to something more too tho, it was interesting.

[Shakti]

It can'tve been fun on your part trying to pull words from her as though you were drawing teeth. Crabs really do have to get over it sometimes and just relax.

Pity the two of you were so different in your expression of affection that it was cause for misunderstanding.

[cissy]

Im a cancer woman and I experience the same thing when my sag man comes around. It wasn't that she didn't like you. Infact quitethe opposite. She was so in love with you and needed so much comfort and reassurance that she didn't know how to convey that to you. So she crawled back into her shell. You took it as her not liking you. She was so hurt and angry with herself for not communicting and maybe even expecting you to see that she loved you. im going through the same thingwith my sag. I threw caution to the wind andtold my sag man how I felt and to my suprise he felt the same way. Im so happy.

[sweetness]

Sags and Cancers do not mix. I dated a Sag off and on for 3 years. when you are in a relationship with them you feel like trusting them is the number one factor. My sag, that i was with, was selfish as hell. Granted, he was a good person at heart, but he had a problem with monogomy. Basically, he cheated on me with his ex girl (who, ironically had the same birthday as mine) and with another woman. The other woman had a baby for him and this was kept from me for a whole year. We he finally told me about his family, on the side, his excuse for not telling me was he didn't want to lose me. Sags have a problem with commiting and they always have to be right. They always turn everything around so that it is your fault. They are free spirted indiviuals who are always looking for some wild adventure. I (a crab) like to have my dose of fun, but i am looking for security in a man. i am a homebody who puts my family first. Now, i do believe all Sags are not like this, but hat is what they are about. another thing about asag is no matter how much you love them, they will not commit unless they want to. And don't wait for them to call you back, it may be 2 to 3 weeks before they decide to give you a ring.

[suziebling]

And when it all goes wrong with a sag!!!!! not an experience I would like to repeat, I can relate to most of sweetness opinion....