Virgo-Pisces

[Jeffrey Kishner]

Discuss compatibility between Virgo and Pisces Sun signs.

[Oceania]

ForeverSweet (and other pisces virgo peeps)
I'd just like to say I'm quite sad that things never seem to work out between Virgo and Pisces, but I'd really like to keep the fatith that these relationships can and do work. Im a pisces girl (have aquarius cusp) and the love of my life is a wonderful, caring Virgo guy. Also my brother is a fellow pisces and his partner is a virgo girl and they are on their way to having their first child together. i don't believe relationships boil down to sun-signs completely, or astrology overall, but it is always about the give-take aspect which makes them really last or fall apart completely. I'm really sorry you couldnt find lasting happiness with your partner, and although it's little consolation i believe there is someone out there for everyone. This is the first virgo guy I have ever had the pleasure of dating and we've been together for nearly 2 and a half years. he met me when i was going thru a tough time and no matter what, he was always there for me, always made me feel special, like he wanted to care about me. I know people tend to give virgo's a hard time over there feelings (or lack of some might say0 but he was different from the start. if anything I (the romantic, misty-eyed pisces) was the one who wanted to hold back from a relationship developing at first because i was in a really bad place at the time and it took a lot of understanding on his behalf to help me deal with it. needless to say he made it seem so effortless even though it must have been fairly draining for him. he always stood by me and made me feel like i actually mattered in a way no-one else has ever done before. and yes, i did take longer to commit to him than he did me (which i thought was odd cos virgo's are usually the more guarded sort) but im glad we persevered, because now i have the most faithful, doting loving partner i could ever have wished for. it's not without it's set backs sometimes but we never really argue and any disagreements are dealt with efficiently. he always says how 'fun' it is to be around me, but to be honest i never have difficulty finding the fun in him, which i think is why it works so well. i find him the most fascinating guy i have ever met and he keeps me 'grounded' cos i do have a tendency to sometimes 'lose myself'. suffice to say we have a beautiful loving and productive relationship, which i can see us building a great future upon. and he isn't afraid of facing the future with me.
so i really believe we have found a soulmate in each other (he told me that way before i did) and i hope to enjoy a prosperous future with him by my side.
to everyone who has ever been in a virgo-pisces relationship my advice is this: remember your differences can make you stronger and more fulfilled, and always always remember communication is the most vital thing for a relationship to survive. good luck to everyone and remember a relationship of this sort can be lasting, fruitful and the most beautiful rewarding relationship there is

[wil]

This is truly an interesting set of thoughts on this topic. I'm a pisces male driven to this site by my recent experiences with a Virgo woman. Now analytical as I am, (maybe I have a virgonian side to me as well...mom was a Virgo) I began to ponder about this fascinating person I have met. Here's a revelation for you Virgo woman, Pisces men are probably the only ones that will really ever 'fully' understand you because for some not-too-well-known reason, we can intuit your thoughts...or most people's thoughts for that matter. Intellectual exercises come rather easy to Pisces so Virgo's insatiable need in this area is complimented well around Pisces...At any rate, moving back into the central point of what brought me here...I've been talking to this one woman on and off and it seems like she's either interested or completely not. I love a challenge so the chase has been pretty interesting, but every chase needs closure...and I'm devoting more mental resources to the development of tactics needed to finally engage this woman. She has mentioned not wanting to get into a relationship anytime soon but the other day, I invited her out to dinner and a concert...she agreed and to my delight, I was very casual, gentleman-like, not overbearing but sufficiently involved in our date that she must've felt comfortable. After the concert, we went out for a drink and she decided to order some mexican o'douvers. To my extreme joy, this woman began to pamper me by feeding me. Now this may sound really stupid and benign to most of you but being spoon-fed by a gorgeous woman that has pretty much been devoid of any insinuation of interest is rather pleasing...I loved it!!! It seems like the breakthrough I have been waiting for; for what seems like a long time. After dropping her off, she writes to me and calls me "love" and then asks that I text her back when home and thanks me for an excellent night with a plea to do it again soon. So I go home with a smile that's almost painful...I write back to let her know I'm home...I give it a day and try her back to continue to give her the oxygen she needs to think...but I now feel like I'm back to square-one where getting a hold of her is rather difficult and the displays of interest and affection are almost non-existent...I'm $%%^^&&** confused!!! While there was no sex involved, I still felt that the night couldn't of gone any better...but now I'm wondering what has pushed her away...Can any of you Virgo women weigh in? What's my next strategic move?

[MsAristocracy]

Wil,
It seems that she might be one of those "organized but busy" Virgals. Meaning, that when we have work/school or whatever daily routine we stick to it and stray little. So, if your first date was on the weekend then by Monday morning it's back to business as usual. If it was in the evening during the work week then she found/made time for you thanks to your advance notice/scheduling.

So, what you have to do is install another routine that you are committed to keeping. Call her every night around the same time and let the ease of the conversation lean to how long the conversation goes. We love witty humor so if you can make her laugh or tease her this will work wonders for you.

Pisces (men) don't usually show that they are nervous or unsure of things. I think its usually a well kept secret, so do that. Act naturally and let the flow be easy and light. That way no awkwardness comes into play. Play some music as you talk to her on the phone or watch the news and discuss some of the segments. Draw her into your world (please) through making her feel apart of your life.

Oh and Virgals do best with pre-planned events. We "can" be spontaneous at times when we have nothing big going on. But, if you want to see her again, I suggest a Sunday evening stroll or a Saturday night beach walk. Something sweet, nice, also not overwhelming. Because you need more bonding time.

Best,

MsA

[wil]

Thank you for your insights and indispensable suggestions. It's really hard to discern people's expectations and much less so when given the time and space to interact with them because we immerse ourselves completely in the "moment." So we in all likelihood miss very important cues for "next time." In our initial date, we did discuss politics, we had magic moments during conversations like searching for a word for a second or two and then blurt out the word simultaneously. We also listened to a song and right when she was asking me to play it again...i had just hit the replay button. These subtle instances of compatability did impress me and there were others just as qualified. As mentioned before, I appreciate a challenge, so long it's worth it...it definitely sounds like it is and my impression is that this person is the type to fully cater to the one she's with...something Pisces men die for!!! My mom was this way and 'till this day, there is nothing out there that has served as a suitable substitute...she was always on point with her attention to details...and as mentioned previously, she was a Virgo. Also want to share that before going out with her this time, I had ran into her in a club and she was very slippery...meaning she was hard to pin down and so I found a guy selling roses and sent it to her...her reaction was pretty sober--not too much emotion just a brief smile. She then disappeared...I then ran into her in another place (different night) and we chatted...but then she felt she needed to be here, there just couldn't stay put...so I ignored her (somewhat) for the remainder of the night. I let a month pass and we then hooked up for what was our spectacular night...so now that I've seen the hills and valleys, I'm swimming in a state of confusion...however, I will try these things you've mentioned and see if I can appeal to her some more...It feels as if I was so close and now so far...Thanks again MsA.

[Layla]

I am a pisces woman, and I'm trying help something happen with my Virgo friend (man) and i mean I find him unbelivably attractive, smart,funny,sensative, we share common intrests, and were both a bit wierd haha. He is interested, hes told me so but sometimes he can be so distant? And i mean coming from a pisces the word distant describing someone else as distant.... but yeah he shows interest then ignores me and flirts with other girls and then he gets close and would text me all the time and ignore me agian??? Its really upseting and sometimes i feel like he holds no interest in me at all even though he said he did??? ugh..... its frustrating because we get on perfectly!!!. Were both still young and spontaneous and thats the way i like it but i need secruithy and the knowlege that hes faithful-though i know he heasnt been with anyone for over a year.

[pisces313]

ive read through this discussion and as a pisces male im a little hurt by some of the generalization of us that was written. affectionofavirgo what your husband did flat out was wrong but you shouldnt let his transgressions turn you away from pisces males all together you might miss out on something wonderful. im in love with a virgo currently and i wouldnt do anything like that to her or anyone for that matter. however i admit that at times i can be cold and distant usually when angered or hurt. i guess you could call it a defense mechanism of sorts. i dont think that pisces males dont know how to show affection i think its we know how easily we can be hurt and dont want to open ourselves up to that. so virgo females if you have a fish that you are trying to get to open up my advice would be do what my virgo did nag him until he opens up....lol...just kidding what she did was let me know that affection was what she wanted and that she wanted it from me and made me feel (this is going to sound a little girly)safe while exposing my vulnerability and i love her for it.....just in case she reads this.....i love you lady

[Oceania]

thats the sweetest thing ever pisces313!!! virgo people are awesome for the most part, and generally speaking if there's any sun sign out there who is meant to be for virgo, its gotta be pisces!!! good luck to you

[Anjie]

i love you too mister...but now lets not get ahead of ourselves..its not all a generalization..yeah as a virgo we do get waaaaaaaay overemotional and i dont know bout the rest of u but i definitely have some trust issues..the thing is..and ive read this is true for most pisceans..but its crazy cuz they know us better and deeper than any other human ever has..its scary..unfortunately they can be cold and simply turn off feelings at any given time...which just hurts the sensitive virgo even more...also this particular pisces tends to be too laid back for his own good. But he's my baby and i love him so i simply will need to get on some meds to tone down my star given traits and then i wont be so easily hurt and wah lah all will be well. I know he is one pisces that isnt going to cheat...on the contrary the only cheater in this relationship has been me, and he has been forgiving of that and i cant express how greatful I am for the million chances he has given me.. I love u jizzle

[Ms. Virgo-Sun-Pisces-Moon]

Sweetheart! I certainly won't give up on my pisces boy!

[laurawalton]

Unfortunately, I could share some war stories about Virgo men, too. In a nutshell, all three of them (one ex-husband, one live-in, and one high school sweetheart) cheated repeatedly and would lie about it for years. I swear, one of the women actually came with me to the house to confront my husband, and he still denied it, with both of us standing there!

It's actually pretty funny now, and ten years later, he and I joke about it. And no, not all Virgo men are like that, I know! My experiences are due in part to a few aspects in my own chart that tend to attract man-ho's (if they'd charge, they could pay off the national debt within three months.)

And just don't ask about my recent experiences with a Gemini Sun, Virgo Ascendant-- if the truth ever comes out of that man's mouth, the world will come to an end.

(Sorry for the mini-rant...I actually love Virgos and Gems...sometimes you just gotta get it out, though!)

[Begin Anew]

"My experiences are due in part to a few aspects in my own chart that tend to attract man-ho's" Laura, which aspects tend to do this? I also seem to attract a plethora of man-hos, so I'm curious to know if you and I share any of the same aspects!

[laurawalton]

BeginAnew, I blame most of the deception problem on a 5th house Sagittarian Neptune opposed to an 11th house Gemini Mars. Since it's Neptune, a big part of it is self-deception...I do the rose-colored glasses thing for the first year, and it's a big shock when the glasses come off. That's why I have a hard time feeling any residual grudges; I knew what they were like but ignored my own intuiton in favor of romantic fantasy. It's not fair to them, either, I've decided; how can I really love someone if I don't even know who they are?

Neptune also squares my 8th house Jupiter, which certainly doesn't help...both of my Sun's co-rulers stuck in sex and love houses, squared to one another. Yuck.

I took a quick look at your chart, and you also have the Gemini influence in your 5th house Venus, which is opposed to Uranus in Sag.-- those are the first two I'd explore in relation to your man-ho issue. Your 12th house Neptune probably gives you a touch of the Piscean "rose-colored glasses" effect, too.