Should i wait or give up this Virgo guy?

[cancervirgo]

I meet him in bar.he dance w/ my friend,and i dance w/ his friend.but actualy i like him since i saw him,but im shy to dance with him and he not realy approached to me,but his friend did.he gave his business card to my friend and i ask her to gave it to me coz she already have boyfriend.I txt him and he asked how can i have his number?i told him i asked my friend and he asked me out to movie.next day,we went out and i asked him to come to my place,i know at 1st our attratction maybe on sex.but i like him more than that.and couples of days he didnt txt me and he start chasing my friend.im so sad & angry & dissapointed.he being a jerk & lie to my friend about us.i told him im hurt with his act and i told him if im not that kind a girl from bar and im interesting with him not only for fun and i didnt contact with him 4 a while.

but then he txt me and said sorry,didnt meant to hurt me and promise wont play game.i already fallin 4 him,so i meet him again.so far,he didnt txt my friend again,i asked her to make sure.He sometimes sweet & even promise will take me out for dinner,but sometimes he so cold.he can ignore my txt for days.and mostly i txt him first.(theres 2 times he txt me first,but i reject him.is that make him dun want txt me first again?)

when he act sweet i thought maybe he start like me or im wrong?and he know i like him.oh and once time he told me theres no other girl,im happy to hear that even im adoubt he might lie,but well..according virgo men article...virgo guy is honest..is he tellin the truth?

I told him accidently that i like him.he just nodded his head.i dunno whats that meant.I read all virgo guy thing,what he like,what he dislike.i even re-decorate my place for him and he notice it (im queit happy coz he notice the different) and from the article bout virgo guy that i read,they said virgo guy like to take his time n dun like to be rushed.and have to be patience & wait.I dun mind to wait till he realy like me not only 4 sex,but how can i know if he in process?coz i dun want i wait and waste my time then it didnt goin nowhere.i realy already fallin 4 him and blind.i know maybe he just play game and just want me for sex and not realy care bout how i feel 4 him.but sometimes i push myself to believe,he might like me.Gosh..i realy need help and your opinion ,im blind now and cannot think straight.i need to know what he want & how he thingking ( i need virgo guy hel hereee) What do u think bout his act?he is a jerk at 1st but sometimes he is sweet.n one thing that i hate..he can just dissapear for weeks.

Sometimes i realy wanna try again and be more patience with him,but sometimes i just..dunno if what i did is right?i even think its wrong to fallin in love with him.how can i make him understand that i want more from this?

should i wait?or give up?ah btw..its first time i know guy from bar...i never never want 2 know guy from bar.but he realy attract me,well i always get attract buy virgo guy i think...and i realy want him to be mine.theres crazy idea that i just ask him to be mine coz im tired guessing but im worry he will dissapear forever...

Thank u for the reply n read my long Discussion..

[Oceania2]

Hey Eric

Im Oceania had to sign in with a different account so it's Oceania2 now. And yea you could say I'm a pretty strong women. And I only know so much about Virgo's cos I stalk 1/12 of the population mwahahaha ;)

[Oceania]

Hey no worries!

bit weird he's not answered your call. maybe waiting is best.

[Eric]

Hi, cancervirgo

I don t think it s realistic to expect a virgo to say "hey i dun think im interested or i think its not working out"
You could compare that to throwing water on fire, it s lots of steam, smoke, dust ... so annoying,
why not just let the fire slowly die instead ? Everyone look in another direction and it s done ...
That is more like virgo thinking :-)

... don t tell me about the complicated virgo ... I m living inside one :-)
Eric

[cancervirgo]

Ehm...Well i dunno too.He txt me couples of days ago and he said he want come but he didnt show up.it never happen be4.so im queit angry not becoz he didnt come but if he change his mind...just said he cant make it.he said like that be4 if he cant make it and why this time he didnt say nothing and just let me wait.im so angry this time with him.and i wont contact him again.

He is dragon virgo guy.my physcic said his mind is hard to read.me...i realy dun want try to know what he thingking.just go woth the flow.if he contact me...i'll make him wait to have my reply.but now i realy dun want contact him again.

[cancervirgo]

Oceania...need u here...after what happened last week that he didnt come,i didnt txt him at all for 3 days and on sunday at 3 am he called me twice,but i was in club so i missed his call and i dun reply or txt him.well im happy he called me only after 3 days.I thought i have to wait longer or he not goanna contact me again.

Virguy indeed confusing.I realy dun understand.recently i read 1 article said virguy hate woman want him and i have to ignoring him.its so weird...its just like a game.

[~Sweet~]

Hey girl,

Let me just offer my two cents as I have been in a relationship with a virgo male before for 7years and my dad is a Virgo too. First thing (and you may not like what I'm about to say but I'm a taurus and can't help but to be blunt), from your original post it seems to me that he was interested in your friend and not you. After all, he gave her his business card and not you. Unfortunately, you contacting him from the card he gave to your friend made you appear desperate. They do not like to be chased at all! They LOVE classy and sophisticated women (not that you are not) and the fact that you did that put you in another category other than classy. To them, a classy lady doesn't chase.

It doesn't surprise me that he is shady at times with contacting you. It seems that because your friend wasn't interested, he figured he'd see what you were about after the fact. Virgos are extremely analytical people. They analyze everything including who they choose to have a relationship with. It's like they have this list in their heads and upon meeting you, they observe your behavior, your moods, your style, etc. to see if it matches up with their list. Any deviation from that list, they begin to put you into this category or type of girl.

They absolutely know upon first glance and even the first few words out of your mouth if you will be a women to pursue or a woman to prey on (if you know what I mean). I don't think it was such a good idea to let him know you liked him so early on. They kinda don't like that. You didn't have to say it, u already showed it. They prefer to take the lead with a woman and absolutely love when they can have the first opportunity to tell the woman they adore them.

These men are very intelligent and are go-getters. You must be a strong women in their eyes or yes, you will get the cold shoulder. They are considerate of your feelings so do not expect him to just say he has lost interest. Recognize the signs. I could go on forever about Virgos but this is getting long. My advice is to be light at this point. Give him a reason to find interest in you again. Contacting him repeatedly will push him further away (to him you're being too clingy and weak). He will contact you because he is a gentlemen. When this happens, do not mention like, love, relationships, or what happened in the past at all. Go slowwww! Follow his lead. Pay attention to how he talks to you and finally check to see if his actions match what he says. Remember slowww and steady wins the race! Hope this helps.

[cancervirgo]

Hi sweet,thanks for the reply.yes i already know all that virguy hate girls want them etc..read that all in internet haha...well..i didnt contact him now.will listen ur guys advise.and im busy with my own thing anyway now..

Thank u for ur reply and tell me again if u have other advise :)

[cancervirgo]

Hi oceania2..why u change ur name?How are you?long time we didnt talk in this website.Hope things goin well with u tho.

That virguy..things goin queit ok I would said.still some conflict happen but I try be more patient and if im upset I told him nicely.He seem change little bit.before he not reply my txt sometimes...but now if in my txt im sound upset coz he not reply..he reply straight away.coz normaly first txt I just say hi...and wait his reply.when he not reply after 1 hour..I txt him back called him by his last name,he know im upset if i start called his last name and he reply me straight away.Its a good sign u think?coz if he dun care he wont bother to reply my txt rite?

Ah btw..I plan to make him bday cake on his bday and send it to his office.u think is ok?I never bake a cake but will start to learn now before his bday come and I read that virguy like handmade things.Im sometimes think is ok to send bday cake to his office but im worry if he will think its too much.What u think?

[Oceania2]

Hi Cancervirgo

Hmmm he must care about you cos obviously he texts you back now, so thats a start. maybe he's looking for friendship? Virgo's (well most people really) hate the thought of hurting someone, but if he see's this as manipulation of any form he wont fall for it next time so don't try to sound upset if you genuinely aren't.

baking him a cake could be nice, but as i dunno the guy it would be hard to guess what his reaction would be. If you do think this is a good idea you check he has no allergies, or what type of cake he likes (fruit, sponge, chocolate etc) before you do it as he'll either not really appreciate it (he'll appreciate the thought tho) or he could end up having a reaction of sorts.

Oh yea I changed my name cos i forgot my old password 'duh!' lol.

Take care cancervirgo will chat to you soon x

[cancervirgo]

Hi Oceania2..haha..thats happen to me too so many passwords and I forgot sometimes.

Ah..I try to bake cheesecake first..I think all guys queit like cheese cake tho...but I know he likes coffe and the bday cake I want make is cappucino flavour..so...should be ok..Yes Im not always upset,but he know if i start called his last name,I want a reply haha...and he said sorry if made me wait and explain to me what he is doin.so yeah..im queit happy..he looks more care bit now.hope things getting better.

How bout u...if u forgot ur password thats meant u not in this website for a while.