So Scorpios lie as much as anyone else. GOOD TO KNOW

[MyOwnPrivateDelaware]

I finally got a straight answer from my so-called boyfriend. He's upset over something stupid I did before we EVEN STARTED DATING. I admit it was stupid and I apologized and told him I would understand if he didn't want to date me because of it. He said he didn't like what I did but it wasn't a big deal and he was just glad I came clean to him and he didn't have to find out on his own. Well, apparently he's NOT FORGIVEN ME because in our argument this past week he THREW IT IN MY FACE AGAIN. And I said, "I thought we were over that months ago, and besides, do I bring up that you "technically" weren't working when we started dating but you told me you were in school AND working?" And he just said "I'm not dealing with this anymore tonight goodnight" and HUNG UP ON ME.

So it's okay for a Scorpio to lie through his teeth but if you make a mistake, it gets thrown in your face over and over? LOVELY. Scorpios are evil. Not the ones here, but in general, and HIM in particular.

[Ashley]

hahahaha... Im sorry but Im falling off my chair laughing. This sounds like 90% of the arguments Twilight and I have.... is there something WRONG with this? :-))))))

[MyOwnPrivateDelaware]

I'm sorry, I don't know what you mean if there is something wrong with it? Or if you are just kidding? :) For me, if someone does something wrong and they apologize and I say "Oh, all right, just don't do it again," I mean it. It pisses me off that he said that to me but obviously didn't mean it because he is still bringing it up.

Sorry if this isn't what you meant because I wasn't sure.

[Ashley]

lol. sorry..didnt mean to confuse you... the argument just sounds like typical dramatic scorpio style. we like to do things big so the flinging old problems and hanging up thing is just familiar. sometimes venting is necessary for scorps to get past things, and you have to sort of develop an understanding of your scorp's style of being upset so you can let it fall like water off your back, and come back to the problem later when things are calmed down.

[MyOwnPrivateDelaware]

You and me both! *sigh*

[Shygirl]

Scorpios are evil. Not the ones here, but in general, and HIM in particular.

Could you please refrain from making GENERALIZED negative statements about Scorpios? Some of us have Scorpios in our lives who are very dear to us & nothing like this person that you're unfortunately dealing with. I am sorry you're hurting....:-(

[MyOwnPrivateDelaware]

I am sorry. I obviously don't know every Scorpio on the planet and obviously there are non-evil ones out there, but I have dealt with three real bad ones, though only romantically involved with just this one. I am frustrated and demoralized but should not make sweeping generalizations.

[Shygirl]

I understand your frustration & agony. I'm sorry you are going through what you're going through right now. And I sincerely hope that things get better for you soon...:-)

[Shygirl]

Scorpios ARE/CAN BE evil...

May, there is a HUGE difference between what someone IS versus what someone CAN BE.... the reality is that we all, irrespective of our sun signs CAN BE evil....

[Janis]

Yes, indeed this is a negative attribute in a Scorpio I believe the more Scorpio influences in your chart the harder this, "not letting go of other peoples mistakes" can get. I know I personally harbour feelings and it may take me years once I am hurt to get you back, but it will happen!! It sounds horrible and I don't mean it in a physical sense, but just little things. Like I like to say, "Today I kiss your ass, but tomorrow you will be kissing mine". O wow did I just say that??? Ha I guess i did!! YIKES!!! Anyhow, long story really not that bad, but for example we know when we are being lied to we have photographic memory you say one thing and we catch you in a lie years later we will remember that, just don't be mad when we lie to you;o) Now, we see it as a violation of trust, we trust with all our hearts and unconditionally, but we are constantly being tested then we find out years later someone dear to us lied about something it hurts:( I know what your going to say it was years ago get over it!!! That's not how we work, its a negative attribute in most Scorps., and really there is no on/off switch.

[MyOwnPrivateDelaware]

I don't have a problem with that. I would never tell someone to just GET OVER IT if they aren't. My problem is that he told me he WAS over it and obviously isn't, which pisses me off. I screwed up and it's fine if he is upset still, but don't tell me, "Aw, it's okay, I forgive you" and then THROW IT IN MY FACE when it is convenient to do so!!!

[Ashley]

i think sometimes people want to forgive something and do make an honest effort to do so, but they expect you've learned from your mistake and dont want to be burned a second time....so later when you do something else that is reminiscent of the past issue...then the OLD issue comes back up again.

for example, if you lie to me once about a certain situation, i will be quick to forgive. If you lie AGAIN about something similar, then im pissed about the NEW lie, and the OLD lie gets dragged back out again too...

now by similar, it doesnt have to be an EXACT issue repeated... but something that brings up a similar underlying problem, does that make sense? so if you lie to me about talking to an exgirlfriend for example, because you think you are protecting my feelings, i'll forgive the lie and we'll talk about how to have it not happen again. Then later you get caught in ANOTHER lie that involves either the exgirlfriend again, or "protecting my feelings" again... then said lie number one is now dredged back up.

perhaps your scorp feels something has been dredged back up from that original sin he's forgiven ...

[MyOwnPrivateDelaware]

eep.

Maybe.

I dunno. We met through a friend. The friend told me my Scorp liked older girls and I'm his same age, so he (the friend) said, "Well, I'll give him your number and tell him you're 28 - that's even borderline for him, he likes women in mid-30s and up." (I'm 25). So I stupidly said OK, figuring that it wasn't a big deal because I didn't think we'd hit it off. Well, he called me and we talked for a week and I really started to like him, so I came clean. He wasn't pleased but he said age really didn't matter to him that much and he only dated older women mainly because he works with a lot of them (he's a teacher), not out of a real fetish for them or anything. He said he was glad I told him and told me not to feel bad about it because it wasn't a big deal.

He never brought it up again until we were arguing this week and he said he started feeling like he was falling in love with me and that it scared him so he felt he needed to back off. He told me to ask any questions I wanted to ask and so I just asked him when he started feeling things were getting too close, and he told me, and then he started getting angry saying that he was done talking about this because we weren't getting anywhere. I told him that I actually thought I was getting a lot of insight into why things were the way they were between us from this talk, and he yells, "Well, I wasn't the one who lied at the beginning of the relationship" and he hung up on me. :(