Virgo Man and Mixed Messages . . . Any Woman with Virgo Man Experiance?

[Mimi]

Virgo men are known to be 'shy' about their feelings. Is it true when they think they have found the 'one' they will pull away for a looong period of time (years) until they come back...only to find out that the person no longer loves them???

Virgo man told me his feelings straight out! He said ''i will say it again I LOVE YOU AND I CANT BE WITHOUT YOU you were my first and i hope my last'' Then suddenly and so quickley there is *dead silence* not returning my calls and txts.. why are they like this? Very confusing. This guy has Virgo sun, Pisces Moon and Virgo Venus...hmmm...anyone can help me?

[C]

My only romantic experience with a Virgo is complicated and might not be very typical. I don't meet many Virgo's and the ones I do are almost always immediately resigned to my "friend zone" for one reason or another. The one Virgo I did date seriously and I had complicated synastry- we shared a twelfth house sun and a host of nasty, complicated Neptunian conflicts. Even when things in our relationship were f*cked up beyond repair (he cheated, had a host of addictions) and it was pretty obvious there was nothing left for us to salvage, he continued to feed me lines for (honestly) no conceivable reason that I can deduce. He kept telling me he wanted me to move back to Oregon from Massachusetts so that we could "try again" and telling me how badly he missed me, that seeing my things leftover around our old apartment was "so painful," and that he loved me so much, blah blah blah. I found out after a week or so of hearing all that blubber that he was actually screwing some 19 year old girl on the side while he "waited" for me to uproot my life a second time and come back to him. I don't get it and I don't even bother trying to- it's would just be a waste of my precious time. If you want my advice, walk away. There are guys out there, Virgo or not, who know what they want and will be straight with you about it.

[Mimi]

Yea ur right...+) .. i just thrive on this passion tho and intense relationships i jus need it becuase it can dig deep under my skin maybe i enjoy the drama.. i dont kno..ill decide when i dont want it anymore thoo...thanks for your reply

[Begin Anew]

Yes, Virgos are insecure about sharing their feelings. They don't like to be in placed in situations that cause them to feel vulnerable or exposed in any way. With this guys Moon in Pisces, he is probably deeply emotional and very torn between wanting to be very emotionally open/intimate with you and wanting to keep his feelings guarded and under control. Virgo is opposite Pisces, meaning he was most likely born under a full moon. I also have Sun opposition Moon, although I am Taurus Sun/Scorpio Moon, and I constantly struggle with an inner tug-of-war, especially in my intimate relationships. I so badly want to share how I feel about the other person, but I also so badly don't want to lose control over my emotions. Maybe this is what's going on with this Virgo/Pisces. He's scared that he's exposed too much of himself, so he went into fight or flight mode. It sounds to me like he's unsure of what he wants, and it's highly likely that you won't be able to pull him out of wherever he's escaped to.

[the eternal daydreamer]

I agree with you. "he is probably deeply emotional and very torn between wanting to be very emotionally open/intimate with you and wanting to keep his feelings guarded and under control."

[Virgo Sun/ Cancer Moon]

I'm a Virgo and I'm somewhat like that. It's only if I don't want to hurt that person because there is someone else in the picture that I'm trying to get rid of. My sun is in Virgo, moon in Cancer, Venus in Leo and Mars in Scorpio. So I may be a little different. But there maybe someone in the picture and doesn't want u to find because he is unhappy in his relationship with that person and doesn't want u to find out.

[The Usual Unsuspect]

Mm, perfectly normal behavior of a Virgo in love ;)

If they start to shower you with words of love AND feel comfortable with it, there's something fishy going on ;)

[Virgo Sun/ Cancer Moon]

If I tell someone How i feel...I mean it...if im around the bush with things..Then u better worry

[The Usual Unsuspect]

Tell or shower? I'm making a clear distinction here :)

[Virgo Sun/ Cancer Moon]

And im making a clear distinction...IF I decide to tell someone how i feel... I meant it...if i dont or try to change the subject....im just not really feeling it

[The Usual Unsuspect]

Oh, now I get it.
Do you feel awkward or apprehensive after such confession?

[Virgo Sun/ Cancer Moon]

I feel both....Im in that situation now...This girl started telling me she loved me after like 2wks...Im not feeling that at all...I dont want to hurt her feelings...But Im just not interested now...IAnd atleast im not going to have sex wth her because it will cause more problems.....

[Mimi]

Yea thats the sensible thing to say but maybe my guy isnt the sensible type...lool..:P