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Virgo-Pisces
Replied Nov. 18, 2008
Virgo-Pisces
Replied Nov. 18, 2008
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Thank you for your mail, ... a lady asking for help, ... arrgh
how well you know that a virgo cannot resist that :-)
So, I put on my prince charming outfit, I get on my white horse
and I go as fast as the wind to defeat the mighty dragon
threatening the defenceless princess ...
Hem, I mean ... another day maybe, this time a few well placed words will suffice I guess :-) :-)
I ve been reading the discussion you started, and I have to
admit that I agree with many of the comments that were
made to you. Some of these posts that were made, were obviously written by women/men that know virgo s very well.
I think Oceania2 in particular has a pretty clear and pragmatic view of what is a virgo and how to deal with them ... pretty dangerous woman if you ask me :-) :-) :-) :-)
Hestia also made some good points.
Your friend might decide that this relation won t be, so to spare you and himself all the trouble. This is because in a virgo mind, big changes (like you or him moving closer) are only worth the trouble if he is certain (remember this thing about not taking risks) that the relation and his/your fellings are real. And this can take a loooot of time, lots of months ... if seeing each other constantly. Now with a long distance relationship, he will never have the occasion to make up his mind... just because he is not seeing you ... crazy logic.
You obviously have strong feelings for him, and it all
come down to you willing to follow your feelings on this
or not. I m not sure asking a virgo for advice in such a
case is going to help you.
My advice is not to go chasing him bringing forward your
(his) feeling as the main argument. That won t work well,
he s probably not giving to those the same unconditional
value that most people would. If you want to keep contact,
talking of your feelings must only be part of your exchange.
Trying to hide this is pointless anyway, as a virgo I could tell
you that he will figure immediately what is happening.
You can try on the other hand to be very strong, you tell him what you think, what you are going to do to make this work, you don t give him the choice. You want him so take the lead, take the decisions and let him handle the details ... it could work :-) Virgo are totally nuts about strong women :-) :-)
If you really believe in him and in yourself, well, then follow your feelings, ...
I hope you ll be able to get things as you d like,
Also, I ve been saying this a lot of time, but here it is again,
remember that every persons are different, trying to understand
your friend just by the fact that he s a virgo is a bit of a
stereotype. I agree that you can have a pretty good idea
of what his personality or his "natural" tendencies are
but it is not enought.
So don t despair, but still keep an eye on yourself, too much
suffering won t do you any good...
Eric
Thanks for acknowledging what I wrote a few days ago.
I really do feel like I know what you're going through.
Don't worry (and I know you'll worry anyway... 'cuz I am too, sometimes, with my situation) ...we'll learn many things during this process which will deepen us, enrich us, and all our loved ones. Cheers -
fellow Pisc