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- Sun Sign
- Gemini
- About Me:
- I am easy going and I have a natural curiosity for the world and enjoy meeting people. I cherish my family and friends and I am always surrounded by love and warmth. I am very protective of those that I am close to.
- Relationship Status
- Single
- I easily fall for
- Aries, Scorpio, Aquarius
- My Favorite Things
- Reading, astrology, meeting new people, the paranormal, being with my friends.
- My level of astrological knowledge
- Intermediate (planets/houses/aspects)
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- My descendant in Pisces
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- My moon in leo
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but good for you that you don't need him.. in my case i need him so much in this time in my life.. i've just lost my job, i have lots of debts and problems and though he knows all about it, he disappeared..!!! actually not, he told me last sunday that he is not gonna answer my calls in the next days cause he will be very busy as he has lots of problems at work and then he said " actually i don't feel like talking with anyone".. i said ok and i ended the phone call nicely. i was very stunned with what he has just said.. then i started to feel very nervous, outraged and totally pissed off!!..
i felt hurt and humiliated, so i called him an hour later , he didn't answer - as he already warned me!- so i felt more nervous and i sent him an sms saying that "enough is enough, it's over between you and me, you are not the only one who have problems in this life, problems can't be an excuse to stop calling and caring about the person you love !!.. i don't think that you really love me" and guess what he didn't call or text me back till this moment.. actually he did something weird, the following day, he added me on facebook as he is new on face book!! i didn't understand, how come he didn't reply on my it's over message but he adds me on facebook!!! weird as usual.. do you think he will call again ??
It's great to "meet" you!
Just hours before he vanished I answered the phone to... "so baby when we gonna try for a little one of our own?" I literally spat my coffee across the room, laughed and said "oh spring that on me!!" he just started laughing too, then said "no but really?" it feels now like that guy never existed, we were so close and so crazy about each other...I've never been so confused in my life!
Oh...I have two types of painting to do, some canvases for my next exhibition in two weeks and I am having a new kitchen fitted monday so I also have to redecorate, and before that move everything out of the room which is ALOT! well Christmas is coming up, reckon there will be any sign of your man? I am wondering if I may possibly hear from the aqua then because he will be staying with his family in the next town, but I am learning not to get my hopes up.
I could scream at him for putting me through this but I would never give him the satisfaction.
Chin up honey :) x
I have a feeling asking for answers will just push him further. There is an article on Ezine, it says it is actually written but sextrology and it says...
Rule #2: Be prepared to play games. If you are not up to playing head games, then walk away. Run. The aqua man will let you think you have him snagged and the next day he will not answer your phone calls and disappear off the face of the Earth. The minute you realize that he is just not into you and it is a waste of time, he will invite you over and make you a delicious meal.
I think I am just gonna do as you do and *try* to put him in the friend catagory, if he comes back I'll just keep him at arms length. Perhaps one day as we said these guys will grow up and give us what we need, at least to some extent, but I don't want a relationship where I have to ask him to even communicate with me, or do the chasing. I'm gonna throw myself in to painting over the next few weeks, it will be a good release.
He will probably be home around Christmas and may make contact and I will just act like I didn't notice he was gone, but he will know because I will have pulled back, he will have to do the work.
LOL it's not that I don't want to call, I can't. He may not answer and then I am just putting myself on the line again. It is totally unkind what he has done and it's not even half a relationship it's gone from him pushing to get serious to absolutley nothing. I thought about writing an email but again he may not reply. But I guess it may make it easier to move on. I'm fairly certain it wasn't anything I have said or done either.
Maybe I should write to him and just tell him I am not angry but I need answers. I dunno
hat have I got to lose? my pride and setting myself up for big rejection.
I was just saying that the aqua did seem very comfortable being alone with me, it was often me that would become shy and he would draw me out of myself, I even asked him if he prefers being in a group or alone with one special person and he said the latter.
Today was awful, t really hit how bad this is all affecting me, I miss him so much it almost hurts ohysically, I felt like he was part of me, I did an exhibition today in a shopping centre, I had been avoiding the place as the last time I was there was also the last day I spent with him, we had an amazing day and were all over each other...The universe of course mocked me by ensuring love songs were playing over the tannoy all day, I was exhausted from lack of sleep, I am usually so focused and driven at these events but I just slumped, feeling numb, detached from everything and close to tears all day, I came home and broke down.
He DID at times seem to avoid eye contact, or he would want to hug me but when I did he would seem to pull back slightly, only once in a while but it was like he wanted to get close then would want to create distance again.
I am feeling a little better now but I am again driving myself crazy with the thought loop that is repeating in my mind constantly, about how I have read aquas can fall ot of love as easily as they fall in love, then I think but why say the stuff he did less than 48 hours before, but then if he meant it why turn cold? I know you have explained this, it just goes around and around...and around.
I need to move on from this at least for now but I have no idea how. Confusing is right hun :(
Of course I would let you know if I ever uncovered the 'secret' of aquarius men, I'm sure many women have tried though. Its funny but is your man a january born aquarius as mine is? I have a feeling the ones born mid feb are a little different. Years ago I had a relationship with another aquarius man and he was nothing like this (he was mid feb) he proposed after 8 months but I wasn't in to him enough to accept. He loved to have a social life and went out almost every evening but if I asked him to be there he was. He never once disappeared for a long period of time. Just tryna figure it out. Also the woman I spoke to who had been with hers 5 years, her guy was a mid feb aqua. There may be nothing in it, I don't know.
Yeah this guy couldn't stand it if I didn't have time for him too, I can only describe his behavior in that event as being like a childish tantrum, he could actually pout and sulk! one time I told him I wanted to get off the phone and he made the most sorry little whining sound, geez when they want you, they want you big time! I don't get it though, he must know this is doing us no good, and when I get responses like I did yesterday I conclude that he MUST have moved on.
It did seem sincere when he said he loved me, and when we were together his arms were around me constantly, my phone never stopped. It's so confusing isn't it?
It seems like you really can't win cos if they are feeling the way you want them to about you, it scares them and they run away freaking out, if they didn't they probably wouldn't bother at all. Yep he told me a lot that he was ready to settle down, marry, have children and he wanted it all with me.
I sincerely hope he is just recharging as you tell me so much, then I can have my duracell bunny back once again! heehee
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