Oh, I totally agree! I've known some Cancers that are absolutely fabulous. You are right on with saying that any sign can be a disaster. It depends on compatibility and how mature both of the people are. And you got the Virgo loyalty down to a fault…
Also the talkativeness has a lot to do with other placements. I have a Libra friend with a Cancer moon. He can be so chatty sometimes, but others he needs his personal space and hardly talks at all.
I agree with K. Everyone has the potential to do well in relationships. I am a Virgo and have never cheated. I am a very loyal person when I'm in a relationship (even in the early stages). The worst two for me were a Gemini and a Cancer.
The Gemini…
I have a Libra rising and Aries moon so my personality shows this conflict. My boyfriend also has a Libra moon and I can't stand it when he is so indecisive! My own indecision is enough thank you!
keep in mind, this is just my semi-educated take on it:
the first guy
i think he'd be more of a challenge for you and fit better with you. i think you 2 have more chemistry. (even if also more conflicts.)
the 2nd guy might get hurt more easily - he…
I would have said the libra moondude his mars is in libra your venus in libra his moon libar your sun virgo
But i could be wrong??
The first dude but you probably know yourself