He said I made him look stupid!! Oh no!!! LONG if u r bored please read...
Ok so I have dealt with this alone as long as I could. Now I am reaching out because I just dont know what to do.
Again, Ill try and keep this short. But I doubt that will happen so I hope whoever is reading is bored this Saturday afternoon! lol
Ok so when I moved to LA and PRIOR to meeting my Scorp, I met and befriended a girl in our apt building. She was a mom AND a virgo so we clicked. We were joined at the hip from that moment on. Actually, SHE is how I met my scorp.
Anyways, she was dating his friend, and we were all doing our thing. My man and I are very diff from those two so after a while we started to keep our distance. To avoid drama. More time goes by and we all have moved out of the apt building we met in, and me, my man, my friend, her man, and my man gurl cousin moved into a new place. Well my homegirl and her man kept havin issues so he moved out. She was unemployed so eventually we had to kick her out. Needless to say she was mad so she started to act out on me.
She stole a few of my things upon movin out and my Scop got involved. He yelled at her for me, even though I didnt ask him to... but still no return of my items. Frm that moment on, she tried to make contact with me and I deaded her. I didnt speak to her or hang with her any longer.
Months go by and I get a call from her man, saying that he needs to come by the new apt and get the rest of his things. I say ok, and go to pick him up. When I get there SHE is outside not him. So instead of me just driving off, I pick her up and take her to get his stuff. Welll come to find out, she came and took whatever she wanted including my mans stuff. ( FYI: He has been in CT since October...long story). I didnt see what she took cause I dont like her and didnt sit and watch what she was taking and i know that that is my fault. But I dont find any of this out till months later... keep reading.
Anyways... well Christmas comes around and I am heading back home to see my little girl and I tell my roomie, my mans cuzzo, that I need her to take me to the airport in MY car and then keep it for me. She says ok and leaves the house. She doesnt show up the next morning to take me and i have no money for a cab to LAX ($60) so im crying tring to figure out who to call... the only person awake at 5am is my ex-friend as she works overnights at CVS. Soooo I call her and she agrees to take me.
I super PISSED at my roomie for standing me up so I dont want my car to be in her possesion. So I ask the ex-friend if she can park my car at CVS since she worked there. She says yes and im off.
I stay gone for the next 3.5 months... in that time i went to the east coast to 1) see my sister and niece, and 2) to see my man!!! He comes to visit, meets my sis and east coast family and he leaves. Great visit... or so I think. 2 days later I get a call from him IRRATE!!! He is yelling at me saying "how culd u be so stupid??! You let that **** come and steal my s***?!?! Let her f*** u over! Not me! I dont like to look stupid and you got me lookin stupid! Im off you! I wont look stupid for anyone!!! CLICK!"
WHAT!?!??!?!? I text him and called and emailed and NOTHING!!! I was so confused and I didnt know what to do.
I fly back to Cali and find that the **** has 11 parking tickets and a boot has been put on my car. I go to confront the chick at work and she says "I need to come get more of Mikes stuff." I say "F that... no more!" She then says "Well Mike talked to your man and he said he doesnt care if Mike has his clothes and that he broke up with you for some other reason." I like a dumb ass believe her and call my man out on it. After months of silence, he responds to that! And he is PISSED... at ME! Called me gullible and says he hasnt has a phone since he saw me last. How could he have spoken to Mike?? FUck! Now I look even worse!!!
Remember that I said he met my sister... well now these two who are both born and raised on the east coast and have some sort of code they live by.. have started talking about the situation. He went to her Facebook and says "You need to help you sister pick better friends.. shes wallin!" So naturally my sis, who thinks my man is PERFECT for me as I need a swift kick in the ass sometimes, writes him back and tells him about all the drama I am going through back in cali. (I have the convos if u care...) He just keeps saying I told her that **** was bad news and I cant mess with her if she insisits on dealing with bad people. I feel where he is coming from but I felt forced to call her due to his cousins lack of consideration. Why isnt he looking at it that way? How am I wrong?!?! I made a mistake and met someone very manipultaive (sp).When I saw that I fell back, But I felt I had no choice at the time I called her.
Everything is just such mess. I am in love with this man, and he is looking at me some sort of way, A bad way. Like Im weak and have bad judgement. What can I do to fix this? I have learned soooo much and he is right in so many ways. But I want him to believe that I have recognized my faults and I want him back. I have never been in a realationship like this before. Where a guy tells me things for my own good or someone who would go to bat for me. He doesnt know that i am just now learning to trust him.
I am a mess. However I am using this time to get my shit together... back the way it was when he met me. I cant lie, im a bit diff. I was in school and working and had my shit 2gether. Now I am not in school, have no job, but have my fare share of drama. I hate this!!!!!!
ok im done typing cause Im sure yall sick of reading now... lol
thanks!
cali broken hearted
Again, Ill try and keep this short. But I doubt that will happen so I hope whoever is reading is bored this Saturday afternoon! lol
Ok so when I moved to LA and PRIOR to meeting my Scorp, I met and befriended a girl in our apt building. She was a mom AND a virgo so we clicked. We were joined at the hip from that moment on. Actually, SHE is how I met my scorp.
Anyways, she was dating his friend, and we were all doing our thing. My man and I are very diff from those two so after a while we started to keep our distance. To avoid drama. More time goes by and we all have moved out of the apt building we met in, and me, my man, my friend, her man, and my man gurl cousin moved into a new place. Well my homegirl and her man kept havin issues so he moved out. She was unemployed so eventually we had to kick her out. Needless to say she was mad so she started to act out on me.
She stole a few of my things upon movin out and my Scop got involved. He yelled at her for me, even though I didnt ask him to... but still no return of my items. Frm that moment on, she tried to make contact with me and I deaded her. I didnt speak to her or hang with her any longer.
Months go by and I get a call from her man, saying that he needs to come by the new apt and get the rest of his things. I say ok, and go to pick him up. When I get there SHE is outside not him. So instead of me just driving off, I pick her up and take her to get his stuff. Welll come to find out, she came and took whatever she wanted including my mans stuff. ( FYI: He has been in CT since October...long story). I didnt see what she took cause I dont like her and didnt sit and watch what she was taking and i know that that is my fault. But I dont find any of this out till months later... keep reading.
Anyways... well Christmas comes around and I am heading back home to see my little girl and I tell my roomie, my mans cuzzo, that I need her to take me to the airport in MY car and then keep it for me. She says ok and leaves the house. She doesnt show up the next morning to take me and i have no money for a cab to LAX ($60) so im crying tring to figure out who to call... the only person awake at 5am is my ex-friend as she works overnights at CVS. Soooo I call her and she agrees to take me.
I super PISSED at my roomie for standing me up so I dont want my car to be in her possesion. So I ask the ex-friend if she can park my car at CVS since she worked there. She says yes and im off.
I stay gone for the next 3.5 months... in that time i went to the east coast to 1) see my sister and niece, and 2) to see my man!!! He comes to visit, meets my sis and east coast family and he leaves. Great visit... or so I think. 2 days later I get a call from him IRRATE!!! He is yelling at me saying "how culd u be so stupid??! You let that **** come and steal my s***?!?! Let her f*** u over! Not me! I dont like to look stupid and you got me lookin stupid! Im off you! I wont look stupid for anyone!!! CLICK!"
WHAT!?!??!?!? I text him and called and emailed and NOTHING!!! I was so confused and I didnt know what to do.
I fly back to Cali and find that the **** has 11 parking tickets and a boot has been put on my car. I go to confront the chick at work and she says "I need to come get more of Mikes stuff." I say "F that... no more!" She then says "Well Mike talked to your man and he said he doesnt care if Mike has his clothes and that he broke up with you for some other reason." I like a dumb ass believe her and call my man out on it. After months of silence, he responds to that! And he is PISSED... at ME! Called me gullible and says he hasnt has a phone since he saw me last. How could he have spoken to Mike?? FUck! Now I look even worse!!!
Remember that I said he met my sister... well now these two who are both born and raised on the east coast and have some sort of code they live by.. have started talking about the situation. He went to her Facebook and says "You need to help you sister pick better friends.. shes wallin!" So naturally my sis, who thinks my man is PERFECT for me as I need a swift kick in the ass sometimes, writes him back and tells him about all the drama I am going through back in cali. (I have the convos if u care...) He just keeps saying I told her that **** was bad news and I cant mess with her if she insisits on dealing with bad people. I feel where he is coming from but I felt forced to call her due to his cousins lack of consideration. Why isnt he looking at it that way? How am I wrong?!?! I made a mistake and met someone very manipultaive (sp).When I saw that I fell back, But I felt I had no choice at the time I called her.
Everything is just such mess. I am in love with this man, and he is looking at me some sort of way, A bad way. Like Im weak and have bad judgement. What can I do to fix this? I have learned soooo much and he is right in so many ways. But I want him to believe that I have recognized my faults and I want him back. I have never been in a realationship like this before. Where a guy tells me things for my own good or someone who would go to bat for me. He doesnt know that i am just now learning to trust him.
I am a mess. However I am using this time to get my shit together... back the way it was when he met me. I cant lie, im a bit diff. I was in school and working and had my shit 2gether. Now I am not in school, have no job, but have my fare share of drama. I hate this!!!!!!
ok im done typing cause Im sure yall sick of reading now... lol
thanks!
cali broken hearted
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