I tend to toss away high value in relationship
and my cancer sis just making boundary excuse of "career is more important than relationship."
She doesn't know that she's pretty attractive with Mars&Venus in Leo...
but she took a vow, I WONT GET ANY BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW!!
Wtheck gurl???
Omgoodness this sounded just like me a couple weeks ago however I realized it would be wise for me to toss the career woman side of me and focus on my love life which will be the most rewarding. Its really a struggle for us to maintain our independence while also having a relationship and most times it doesn't work and we end up having to choose one or the other.
Ah, sounds sort of like me, saying I don't want a boyfriend right now, and making up excuses. My niece has Mars and Venus in Leo, and she herself is quite attractive in my opinion. I'm sort of afraid I'll toss away my values in a relationship, hopefully that won't happen!
I would think that those with trouble in their love life would tend to lean toward their sign, or those who know other people with trouble in their love life. Mines not too peachy right now, but I sort of make it that way, so I'd say Capricorn. But I'm sure (sadly) a lot of signs (don't matter which) have misfortunes in love, hopefully not for life though!
I know this might sound bad but I feel like cancer is attracted to drama, but necessarily so... but they love to find damaged things and repair them and in this they get caught up in other peoples mess and therefore find themselves hurt by the people that they knew have the capability to.
But in this sense it makes them good people cause they are nurturing and hopeful.
Permalink Reply by K. on November 5, 2009 at 1:21pm
I know this might sound bad but I feel like cancer is attracted to drama, but necessarily so... but they love to find damaged things and repair them and in this they get caught up in other peoples mess and therefore find themselves hurt by the people that they knew have the capability to.
But in this sense it makes them good people cause they are nurturing and hopeful.
That is perfectly true. They like drama. And they like fixing people. But then they end up drowning while trying to save someone who probably doesn't deserve it or would need more help than any person could possibly give.
sometimes they try to fix something that don't need fixing though. i've found both the cancers i have dated to have been extremely arrogant and self-righteous and in one case mentally, emotionally, and physically abusive...then he went on and played the victim!
I've seen heaps of cancers find themselves in the middle of so many peoples problems, they see a person who has lived a hard life or has major issues and want to nurture them, they probably can't help but they want to try their hardest because they are perfectly suited for the mother role.
I've asked all my cancer friends and all of them are inclined to adopting children, taking in pets and showing their utmost hospitality.
However they get taken advantage of, the kid that they took in who was a family friend who was into drugs and had no home, the kid stole their money and ran off afterwards.
This happens with them in relationships aswell where they choose people who are damaged and hope that they can fix them but end up getting hurt