WHATS UP WITH VIRGO MEN?

[Roxanne]

I really just dont understand them.. I am a pisces.. Dramatic and emotional and I can either give birth to a part of people that they never knew would ever exist or suck the draining life out of them..or do it all at the same time LOL and for some reason ... hence the word 'reason' I keep attracting and falling in love with Virgo men!

They critisize me and I am overly emotional they always want to be rational but at the end of the day they just want a pisces women... any way I just wanted to ask you all about any similar experiences or any "analytical" or emotional reason as to why this is ?

Thanks!

[Roxanne]

hahaha... wow its so funny that you all mentioned so much about virgo sun pisces moon.. because the guy im talking about defiinately has the pisces moon thing... I still dont get what you mean though by if you have a pisces moon and a virgo sun that you use your emotions to reason? So does reason govern your emotions or does emotions govern your reasoning? Hm... Either way a big turn on for me is that even when they do use their emotions, they dont really like to show it.. or i mean.. they like to eb " dignified" about it... its good and its bad... because thats when i start to get clingy when really it seems like they want some distance.. but then some how when i give them that distance i find something else to think about and then they come back and try to be so AFFECTIONATE.. ugh if its any one thats emotional and flip floppy its virgos not us lol atleast we show what we feel

[Ms. Virgo-Sun-Pisces-Moon]

So does reason govern your emotions or does emotions govern your reasoning?

Neither. Reason governs everything, but with pisces moon, the emotions are considered. With other virgos, the emotions are not considered--it's not that they think emotions are for the weak like aries seems to think, but that it is insufficient in our expression. It can cause distraction and confusion when it comes to fulfilling tasks. That's why some people think virgo is heartless.

they like to be "dignified" about it . . .

Precisely.

when really it seems like they want some distance

Not necessarily. Virgo is like pisces in that he is enormously giving, but he will not stoop to the level of putting on a show that he needs attention. A virgo must be appreciated. MUST BE. I can't stress enough. We like receiving affection alright, we just don't like it to be messy. Offering us messy love is less desirable than offering no love. It's easier to deal with someone who just downright hates you, than to deal with someone who loves you in a pretentious or sloppy way.

Virgos don't show what they feel because we feel like no one cares what we feel. We're too busy thinking about how we're going to clean up everyone else's mess. When you show a virgo that you genuinely care, he cannot ignore you. He might stare at you and not respond, but virgo is enormously sensitive. Affection is not taken lightly.

[sexy_cancer24]

Ha! Me and my virgo don't do the pda thing either. Hand holding is as far as we'll go.... in public.
I know virgos are complicated individuals, but it's worth it. I can't really speak for anyone but the virgo sun/pisces moon guy and he's worth it. I've been in awful relationships. My leo sun/taurus moon ex only talked about himself and cheated on me. My scorpio sun/scorpio moon ex was physically abusive. I stayed out of relationships for a while then I met my virgo man. I probably am partial to virgo men because of my current love so the best advice should probably come from ms. virgo sun/pisces moon. She seems to be much more infor med :)

[Capricorn]

How do you best show a Virgo that you truly care? What is it that they view as caring? Also per Scorpchick question above, how do you invite a Virgo to be emotional?

[Margaret]

By paying attention to the details! :)

[Capricorn]

What does that mean exactly?

[scorpchick]

well you can pay attention to the details but how do you convey that you heard them - how do you SHOW them that you're listening?

[Margaret]

For example, a guy who flirted with me noted that we both were wearing turquoise. Usually guys don't do that, but when he said that, I saw that he was paying attention and wanted to find common ground between us. Or, when I had to go to the bathroom, he told another person for both of them to wait until I got back and we ate together...pity he's in another country.

[sexy_cancer24]

This is completely true for me and my relationship. I just pay attention to the little things so he knows I care. When he got food poisoning I told him I went to webmd to find out what his symptoms were (he's forever on that website!) and then I went to get him bottles of Fiji water to keep him dehydrated because that's the only water he drinks. He thought it was very sweet and he said he didn't know I paid attention to him like I did. As far as getting him to be more emotional I find that writing him a letter or even sending him a text telling him how I feel makes it easier for him to tell me what he's feeling by writing back or texting me back. Then when we get together we can finish the discussion.

OR:

TMI ALERT:
I find that my guy likes to talk a lot more when he's naked, especially after sex. I don't know why but whenever something is bothering him, we take our clothes off and we take a bath together and after a few minutes I ask him what's wrong and he tells me.

[Margaret]

I could imagine myself doing that (I'm a virgo)...interesting

[antwan]

how about this wat is wrong with everyone else lol

[CONFUSED]

Can anyone tell me what to expect from a virgo with Moon in Aquarious???????