WHATS UP WITH VIRGO MEN?

[Roxanne]

I really just dont understand them.. I am a pisces.. Dramatic and emotional and I can either give birth to a part of people that they never knew would ever exist or suck the draining life out of them..or do it all at the same time LOL and for some reason ... hence the word 'reason' I keep attracting and falling in love with Virgo men!

They critisize me and I am overly emotional they always want to be rational but at the end of the day they just want a pisces women... any way I just wanted to ask you all about any similar experiences or any "analytical" or emotional reason as to why this is ?

Thanks!

[Capricorn]

You might be attracted at first b/c you are both mutable, changeable type signs. BUT from what I have read, Pisces is not a great long term match with Virgo-one astrologer calls it a tobaggan to nowhere....(from The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need)..... Pisces emotions will intrigue analytical Virgo but Virgo is a mental sign that will distrust emotion. Virgo is also fault finding and doesn't like too much clinginess. Rox, there is a post with 1000 posts on how they disappear so be careful. You need to follow your heart but Virgo may want you but what do you want?....

[Ms. Virgo-Sun-Pisces-Moon]

Virgo does not distrust other people's emotion--only their own if anyone's. I guess it just depends on the maturity of the virgo. For me, I know I want to be with a pisces for the rest of my life. I just haven't met one that is passionate enough about me.

Virgo is also fault finding and doesn't like too much clinginess.

The first part is true, and like I said, it depends on the maturity of the virgo. It is our responsibility to make the most positive out of our extremely sensitive observations. It's not so much that we don't like it - but whatever we don't like we dislike stongly. If you are virgo's significant other, it is better to go overboard with affection than to ignore it. Of course, we tend to judge sloppy or tactless lovers - but that doesn't mean you can't be clingy.

[XCheshire_ KatX]

I am all for clingy, also I find it so rude when people disappear on you, so I always tell my loved ones that I need my space somedays..sometimes I just get so burnt out..is it such a crime to have time to yourself these days?

[Capricorn]

I am happy to play the violins for the qualities of Female Virgos but I was talking specifically about Male Virgos.... which are a whole 'nother signl......check out the 1000 posts including by some Virgo females...... LOL

[XCheshire_ KatX]

Lawls XD, two Virgos in a relationship, oh the push and pull magnified by 100x.

[50ishVirgo]

I'm a virgo in a relationship with a virgo...oh my?!?! Just now we had this discussion why I didn't call him the past 4 days...I was trying to give him some space...guess when you give it to them they don't want it...I dunno..I'm on an emotional roller coaster with this one like never before in all my years....never really dealt with earth sign anyways...always sags

[Ms. Virgo-Sun-Pisces-Moon]

I like clingy too - I think that's why I love cancers. There's never a question that they care.

Pisces, unfortunately, are estranged from their particular feelings when it comes to me. My emotions are so strong that they abnegate their own and decide to feel mine - it's such a setback in my relationships with them.

[sexy_cancer24]

My boyfriend is a virgo sun/pisces moon just like you and I'm a cancer. He is the BEST relationship I've ever been in. I'm always trying to stick up for virgo guys (I think they get a bad rep sometimes). Yes they are critical and fault finding, but you have to understand that they believe they are truly being helpful by telling you what to "fix". My moon is in aquarius so his critical side does not make me all that upset. Like I said he thinks he's being helpful. As far as clinginess, I'm a cancer of course I'm clingy lol. When he needs his space he says so and I give it to him and then he comes back and it's all good. They just need to know they're needed. I tell my virgo guy all the time how much better he's made my life and it really touches him. Just wanted to come on and show virgos some love since they rarely get love at astrology sites.

PS- Like others have said you might wanna see what his moon sign is. My virgos moon is in pisces which probably lowers his a**hole factor lol

[Little One]

This is sooo cute. And so true.

My boyfriend has pisces rising but virgo moon. Very big sweetheart.

Patience is a huge factor with these guys. I have tons of virguy friends and honestly they are the best men I've ever known. So I too root for them!

And I'm a virgo rising, and I often find myself "criticising" but really I'm trying to be helpful. Sounds bad but if I didn't care, I wouldn't say anything, you know? Same with virguys.

[Little One]

Ps/ I'm a pisces and have had several great relationships with Virguys :o)

[Ms. Virgo-Sun-Pisces-Moon]

@ sexy_cancer24 :

Aww - thank you for sharing that.

Maybe someday I'll be lucky to date a cancer with aquarius moon.

[sexy_cancer24]

No problem.
Like I said before virgos get such a bad rep. I've read some of your comments from other posts and while I know there are many other planetary factors (I'm still somewhat of an astrology novice) everything you say about yourself sounds exactly like him. He really needs a relationship with someone who will love him a lot. Like seriously. A LOT. That's why I always tell him how he makes me feel. He can get really down and is so hard on himself sometimes. I think that's why he has had trouble with relationships before. He would do anything/everything for the girl and he never got that love back in return so he would be accused of being cold and aloof which isn't true at all. I know you're attracted to Pisces, but I think you should give Cancers a try as well. If they're like me you wouldn't be disappointed. Sorry I tend to ramble lol