What Mode are you?

[That Libra Dude]

What's dominant in your chart and do you feel it?

Cardinal: the initiators
Fixed: the stabilizers
Mutable: the improvisers

I read that you're likely to be attracted more towards people that have more of the "Quality" lacking within your own chart. Opinions?

[That Libra Dude]

I'm predominantly Cardinal by far and severely lacking Fixed quality in my chart. I usually find myself spearheading ideas within my circle. There's a decent amount of Mutable quality in my chart as well, but the Cardinal quality edges that out.

[SteamyWeenie]

believe it or not, im fixed. not in that way im sure im more than fertile but my chart.. its mostly fixed.

[Natasha]

You know, most people I know are fixed would've never seemed that way to me... but thinking about it again, I can see how they are. The whole 'stabilizing' force is present in every one. -shrug-

[SteamyWeenie]

ur mom is present in everyone. lmao. sry it just called for a random ur mom joke. i couldnt help it. if neone understands randomness its u. lmaoooo!

[Natasha]

I knew someone was going to do it... I understand randomness, yessir! -salutes- Sooooviet. Cx

[Michelle]

Me:
Cardinal: 6 planets + Chiron, Pallas, and Lilith
Fixed: 3 planets + Vesta and North Node
Mutable: 1 planet + Juno, Ceres and Ascendant

I read that you're likely to be attracted more towards people that have more of the "Quality" lacking within your own chart.

Boyfriend:
Cardinal: 2 + Ascendant
Fixed: 3
Mutable: 5 + Chiron

Guess so!

I always 'end up' in a position of leadership. I never set out to be the leader, it just happens.

[Michelle]

The boyfriend always folds.

Mmmm...he doesn't fold in my case. My boyfriend is not a sap or a pushover. He doesn't let me push him around. Am I an overpowering force? Yes. But, I'm not one of those women who claims she wants a boyfriend, but really wants a doormat.

btw he has Mars in his 7th and I have Venus in my 7th.

[Michelle]

How is it contradictory?

[Michelle]

Even though I deleted that response, I'll answer a bit. Intensity, in my experience, is the capacity to suck the air out of a room and to fill it with your own physical and/or psychic energy. Some people are so intense that they don't let anyone else's energy exist in the same area as their own. It can be stifling and oppressive.

[Michelle]

@Pluto

Well, I don't have the same problems as those women you speak of. My boyfriend isn't clingy. He is independent (Sun-Uranus conjunction). I also don't consider him submissive. Can he be submissive? Certainly- but so can I. I'm not a 24 hour a day dominatrix you know.

these adorable women have never felt comfortable in a relationship where their guy is an entirely independent presence.
Well, I hope that they find that guy, because I did.

[Sarah]

I'm very attracted to 'stabilizers', in terms of romantic relationships so yeah I would assume I fit more cardinal/mutable in the end. I'm a libra sun, scorpio moon, sag rising and my venus/midheaven are in virgo

[Shauntae]

I am a Cancer which is cardinal. My Rising is cardinal Fire, moon and mars are all Libra cardinal Air as well.