Taurus MEN!! Ok, so now I'm really lost...?

Its been a very hard 4 1/2 months. If you read my discussion b4, u know that i'm head over heels for this Bull, but was getting alot of negative responses from him after our 2 month affair lead to a pregers scare! So, wait, now it gets good...

He and I had so many good/bad/ugly/confusing convos these past months. It was very hard at first even trying to forget he existed...we werent hanging around each other, and he lives sooo far it was just easier to make that an excuse not to show up at his doorstep.
I did just that today!!
Showed up with flowers and a "I'm sorry" ballon stuck dead center in the daisey pot~

So, how'd he react....just as I wanted him to!

Not only did my lil neice have the courage to go to his door and knock, but then he followed her back to my car (flowers in hand) and asked me to step out the car. I was sooooo nervous, heart beating thru my chest. I got out, he instantly hugged me and apologized for his negative behavior. He also stood there with me for about 10 mins just chatting it up ;) I was so happy, the hug felt great, and he was making sure he felt every curve of my body! After chatting a bit (it was about 95 degrees UGH!)he proceeded to hug me again goodbye-this time i made sure to kiss his neck and rub/massage it a lil in the back ( his erogenous zone!!) MAN!! 10 mins after leaving him, i got texted about 10 times!! He was telling me how great i looked, how sexy i was, how he wish i didnt leave....LOL
I'm on cloud 9 ( right now)......but.....im letting him lead all convos and actions! Anytime I ever initiated or asked, I never got what i wanted him to do...its SO ON people~

If a Bull takes u back, what do u do!!?HELP!!?

*****UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE****7/18/09

Sooooo, after Tuesday this week, THURSDAY was a fantasty day come true.not only did he text me earlier than his normal wake up time (9am) but we proceeded to text, IM, and Webcam w/mic for hours!! Even during webcam, he was in his room showing off all his Coach accesorries, cologne & movies to me-Sooooooo cute!! Then he professed "even thru allllllll the BS you sent me thru, I love u and I think ur an Awesome person".

guys!! PEOPLE-OMG.....He's a Taurus!! BUT, do you think he really loves me? I DO!!!

B/C he asked me to come back to his side of town (65 miles from me)!! OMG, I flew out there, we spent the night together in his fav hotel...WE DID NOT HAVE SEX-we merely cuddled, laughed, joked, talked, watch tv, and stayed cuddled thru the night till the next day afternoon...then went to pick up a quick bite to eat...HE PAID FOR IT-sooooooo, now what? I texted him when I made it home...he replied, I havent said anything, called, texted, or emailed.....and I wont till he initiates contact again!!

He did however,make it a point to tell me he'd be in my area Sunday...I mean litterally around the corner from me...he knows where I live....should I wait to see what he does Sunday?? Should I call just to say Hi Sunday? Or should I leave it alone....?Hmmmmmmm-it can go anyway now... ;)
But honestly, as much as I wanted sex, laying in his arms, feeling him, smelling him, kissing him, sleeping with him....I was SOOOOOOOO content~

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Permalink Reply by tracy on July 15, 2009 at 4:53am: Hi Cancer girl I got the Taurus alert from my e-mail,I will say it sounds like he misses you & was glad to see you,that's a good sign.Now that you've made the first move to open him up,let him make a move also.You don't want to seem like you're the only one doing all the work,you want him to take the lead also,like the next day see if he calls,see if he is still giving you positive interest,keeping things balanced.He has to work at it just as well as you are.Take things slow & as long as he seems interested on a positive note hopefully things between you & him will fall into place.Be patient & don't rush anything.Keep things neutral until you see things starting to grow & getting better between you him.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cancergurl on July 15, 2009 at 10:24am: hey Tracy!

yeah letting him lead was my downfall b4...im gonna sit this one out, let him call/text/email me- I've met a few guys that can "distract" me while i wait for him. When im with him its pure bliss!! he was still texting me around 1am this morning!! still saying how beautiful i was and thanking me for the flowers.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cusp Of Magic on July 15, 2009 at 6:50am: Well you have to figure out why he wants you back in his life. Once you figure that out you can decide whether or not you are ok with the reality of how things will be and you can stay around or decide to move on. Its your call however I wouldn't consider being with anyone who was going to drop me if I was preggers with their child.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cancergurl on July 15, 2009 at 10:21am: yeah, i know....but he's still around, it was just an unexpected scare 4 mths ago...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by AprilAries on July 15, 2009 at 7:46am: .but.....im letting him lead all convos and actions! Anytime I ever initiated or asked, I never got what i wanted him to do...

I'm not sure how your driving out of your way, showing up unannounced with flowers and an "I'm sorry" balloon is letting him lead all actions? What was the balloon for? Why are you sorry? Wasn't he the one who did the 1000-yard dash when you thought you were pregnant? I know you care about him, but you need to respect yourself. If he wants you, let HIM come out of his way and bring flowers. If you don't think you're worth more than that, why should he?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cancergurl on July 15, 2009 at 10:20am: I'm letting him lead from this day forward...that was my mistake b4; being the initiator...

the flowers were for his bro's passing...3 weeks ago. I sent a fruit basket to his family the week of, but he is still telling me how devastated he is from the sudden death, so i wanted to give him a lil something personally...white daiseys in a lil pot and the im sorry ballon(sorry for his loss); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Capricorn on July 15, 2009 at 10:29am: It doesn't sound like he pulled back-it sounds like he disappeared on you...I agree with April be careful with this man. You made a gesture of expressing you like him, but if you have been hurting so, I would not go back into the bedroom with him until he has courted you for months and you clarify what a commitment means. Do you want sex or love?...there is a difference.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cancergurl on July 15, 2009 at 10:44am: I want both...but I LOVE sex with him!!

I went back to my "standard" a few months ago and its not the same passion or intensity I had with my Bull :(; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Capricorn on July 15, 2009 at 11:07am: You are dating like a man then, which is unlikely to bring you love....just sex. I would recommend the book Act Like a Lady, Think like a Man specifically the chapter on the 90 day rule as a starting point. It is one of the best selling books in America...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Little One on July 15, 2009 at 11:17am: I puffy heart Capricorn...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cancergurl on July 15, 2009 at 1:07pm: i have it- read thru it...but i dont think all rules apply in every situation!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by CoCo on July 18, 2009 at 9:01pm: That book was great but 90 days is BS!; ▶ Reply to This

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