Taurus, does he or does he not? =(

[Cordially_]

I’ve known a Taurus friend for some time…

He sometimes make comments which makes me think that he might be interested, like “Work isn’t the same because I don’t get to talk to you online.” He used to ask me to hang out all the time but I was always busy and couldn’t… One time, I agreed to come to his cocktail party and brought a few friends along. After we left the party, ALL of my friends said that he’s interested in me just from the look in his eyes when he looks at me.

So some of our mutual friends went for a short trip together. We all hung out but the entire weekend we didn’t really talk (which is weird because we usually make conversation). But he DID send me a text when I was going back home to tell me to drive safely.

Then recently we hung out but he was surrounded by girls, he’s very attractive, so girls are always clinging onto him. So I didn’t really get to talk to him or hang out with him. But everytime I look at him, he’d look at me and give me a smile… like a head tilting smile. He called me the next day after work to see if I had a good time and asked me if I wanted to go watch a movie screening with him for work. I said sure. We went and it was really platonic, he didn’t try to hold my hand or anything at all! Even though he didn’t pull back or anything when we mutually touched or when I touch his face he’d just look into my eyes. But he wouldn’t initiate contact.

We went back to his place after the screening to have dinner because I owed him a home-cooked meal I had promised a while back. So I cooked and also surprised him with a gift, Wine. He was ecstatic because he said he had been wanting a glass of wine all day. So we ate and literally told stories about our childhood and laughed every single second of it until 4 am!!! At that point, I told him I was dreading leaving because it was so late and I was getting tired… He offered for me to sleepover. I said I couldn’t. I’m so bewildered. There were no physical contact from him or anything at all… We laid side by side in bed swapping stories but he didn’t try to touch me or any of that sort.

He texts me the next day to see how my day was (to see if I was as tired as he was). And we periodically text throughout the day. And then there’s no contact the day after. And now, I’m left totally confused.

Help me understand his actions. Is he not attracted or interested in me at all?

Thank you ahead to anyone who responds. I really appreciate your time and effort.

[Cordially_]

Dormboyph,

I made the move to KISS him... that's not enough to let him know I really like him??? I cook for him, I like to cook too so that's all dandy =). I bring him little presents, which I love to give (the Taurus side of me hehe). This last time, I brought him Ferrero chocolates. He knows that my time is very valuable and I only give it to those I care about and those who mean a lot to me.

What else can I do to help "lead" the way into his heart? (Other than sex... there's just no way in hell I will have sex when I'm not yet in a relationship)

[NoneOfYaBizz]

Unfortunately we are the type to "not know what we got 'till it's gone." So sadly all you can really do with a bull is give your offerings and play the waiting game. Maybe yank them away every now and again to keep us on planet earth and check our egos. I know it appears a selfish and childish stance but it's how we are. Start pushing and you get gored.

[Cordially_]

NoneOfYaBizz,

But would you say, if you were in my situation and you're the bull I am interested in... that you have feelings for me?

Share with me how you would act, as a Taurus, if you were interested in a girl. What are some of the things you would say, or do... My Taurus tells me when he's excited to see me and spend time with me.

Thank you much!

[NoneOfYaBizz]

Here is a post I made.

http://www.sasstrology.net/forum/topics/taurus-men-1?page=5&com...

Guess what sign she was :)

[Cordially_]

That is just so depressing!

Do you regret it?

[NoneOfYaBizz]

I find it more exhilarating than depressing :)
I don't regret doing what I did. I do harbor some nostalgia and wistfulness in hoping that she could have been the one but she just wasn't the girl or should I say person. Very cool girl and she ended up being a very successful singer.

[Cordially_]

I see...

Are Taurus' idealistic? If so, what are my chances? I don't think an idealistic person will ever be satisfied with any person. Should I be guarded?

[NoneOfYaBizz]

Idealistic in that we would hope for the best. Do we romanticize people? Sometimes. But, I do think we are capable of being satisfied with one person. I think the fear of them not being satisfied by us becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy in many cases especially in those with heavy water and earth influence.

In things I see it says Taurus men tend to not find true love until middle age and settle down late compared to most. I find this true. For myself it seems like I've known true love long ago but was afraid and refused it. I spent many years running and only now feel ready to accept this. I believe a mature bull would be one of the best to trust your heart with if he identified you as his "one." But I don't know how you would discern that, so it is kind of a crapshoot. I don't know what to tell you :(

[Cordially_]

I kind of read differently though...

I read information about the bull that says they're more likelier than other signs to marry at a younger age? Probably because they like the stability?

In any case, I guess I can't get too hopeful then...

[Cordially_]

HI GUYSSS!!!! I'm experiencing the slow pace everyone come on here complaining about Taurus men. LOL AHHHHHHHH

Mr. Bull texted me on Friday of a movie quote that popped into his head from the last screening we watched. We exchanged a few laughs and then I asked him when I was going to see him again. He sent me a smiley face and says he's been working so much because his work project is coming to an end and he's been working extra hours to complete and fine tune everything. And that as soon as his schedule frees up, then he'd be able to. But he doesn't say when. *sigh

I miss him.

I texted him today because something reminded me of him. And he said he was heading off to his second job. (Poor guy, he's always working!!!!) I told him that when he's free, we'd do something really fun and It'll be a treat and a surprise for him.

What do you guys think are some good activities to do with a Taurus? What's a good surprise that he'd enjoy? I also want this experience to be memorable, most importantly, to de-stress and take his mind off of his hectic life.

I was thinking of taking him to a massage parlor? Miniature golfing? Go cart? I also know of a top secret spot on top of a hill, overlooking the city, it's quite beautiful. I was thinking that later on in the night, I'd take him there and we'd picnic under the moonlight.

P.S. I've been super patient and not coddling at all. I try to wait for him to initiate contact, which he seldomly does... and in the rare occasion that he does, it's usually a text or two every few days. What do you make of this?

[Precious]

I try to wait for him to initiate contact, which he seldomly does... and in the rare occasion that he does, it's usually a text or two every few days. What do you make of this?

That's what they to.....sometimes frequently.

[Cordially_]

Hey Precious,

Good news. He is slowly initiating more contact now. =) =) =)