Taurus, does he or does he not? =(

[Cordially_]

I’ve known a Taurus friend for some time…

He sometimes make comments which makes me think that he might be interested, like “Work isn’t the same because I don’t get to talk to you online.” He used to ask me to hang out all the time but I was always busy and couldn’t… One time, I agreed to come to his cocktail party and brought a few friends along. After we left the party, ALL of my friends said that he’s interested in me just from the look in his eyes when he looks at me.

So some of our mutual friends went for a short trip together. We all hung out but the entire weekend we didn’t really talk (which is weird because we usually make conversation). But he DID send me a text when I was going back home to tell me to drive safely.

Then recently we hung out but he was surrounded by girls, he’s very attractive, so girls are always clinging onto him. So I didn’t really get to talk to him or hang out with him. But everytime I look at him, he’d look at me and give me a smile… like a head tilting smile. He called me the next day after work to see if I had a good time and asked me if I wanted to go watch a movie screening with him for work. I said sure. We went and it was really platonic, he didn’t try to hold my hand or anything at all! Even though he didn’t pull back or anything when we mutually touched or when I touch his face he’d just look into my eyes. But he wouldn’t initiate contact.

We went back to his place after the screening to have dinner because I owed him a home-cooked meal I had promised a while back. So I cooked and also surprised him with a gift, Wine. He was ecstatic because he said he had been wanting a glass of wine all day. So we ate and literally told stories about our childhood and laughed every single second of it until 4 am!!! At that point, I told him I was dreading leaving because it was so late and I was getting tired… He offered for me to sleepover. I said I couldn’t. I’m so bewildered. There were no physical contact from him or anything at all… We laid side by side in bed swapping stories but he didn’t try to touch me or any of that sort.

He texts me the next day to see how my day was (to see if I was as tired as he was). And we periodically text throughout the day. And then there’s no contact the day after. And now, I’m left totally confused.

Help me understand his actions. Is he not attracted or interested in me at all?

Thank you ahead to anyone who responds. I really appreciate your time and effort.

[Sexy_Promethean]

Help me understand his actions. Is he not attracted or interested in me at all?

LOL! It sounds like he may like you. Mixed signals are a good tell tale sign that someone is interested in you. *Shrug*

[Cordially_]

I don't know. It's just unusual for me to experience mixed signals because guys who've liked me before are very straight forward with their actions as well as their words. They'd always try to "casually" touch me or hug or something like that... just to get some kind of physical contact.

But I can't read this guy's action at all.

Can you expand on what you said?

Thanks.

[Sexy_Promethean]

As far as I know... Taurus men are usually very insecure underneath and will be sort of coy about their attraction. Not all men or people are straight forward. Some people are shy and may have a fear of rejection, so they will give mixed signals.

He could also be very respectful and not casually touch you... he may not want you to take it the wrong way. He may want you to make the first move? ;)

[Cordially_]

I understand the whole respectful thing but I just think the inclinations and urges to want to stroke someone's hair or touch someone's arm is so uncontrollable that you can't even stop yourself from doing it, especially when you like someone... That's why it's usually a tell-tale sign that someone likes you because of this involuntary actions. But he didn't show any sign of this at all. In fact, even when MY FRIENDS told me he is interested in me, I really at that point, had no idea what on earth they were talking about because I couldn't ever tell if he was or not.

Is that what a Taurus likes? To be chased? I thought they chase the girl when they like her?

I can chase for a bit initially, but I will get sick of it really quick and move on because I take it as disinterest. I prefer the guy to chase me. I'm a bit traditional.

[Precious]

I can chase for a bit initially, but I will get sick of it really quick and move on because I take it as disinterest

Agree

[Cordially_]

Hey precious,

Do you have any experience with this sign?

I appreciate any help/insight at this point.

=) thanks xx

[Sexy_Promethean]

You can always ask him?

I wouldn't forget to look at the bigger picture instead of analyzing all details to death. When we analyze something to death, we can kill it and send it to its death. Also, I am not the type to graze someone's upper arm or stroke their hair if I really like them... and I am a woman attracted to women. I also have a lot of masculine signs in my chart and Aries, by nature, is the most masculine sign of the zodiac.

Here is the big picture:

He used to ask me to hang out all the time but I was always busy and couldn’t
When someone likes you, they tend to want to spend time with you.

Then recently we hung out but he was surrounded by girls, he’s very attractive, so girls are always clinging onto him.
Showing you that he is desirous.

But everytime I look at him, he’d look at me and give me a smile… like a head tilting smile.
Smiling at you is a signal of attraction.

Even though he didn’t pull back or anything when we mutually touched or when I touch his face he’d just look into my eyes.
Hello?! Looking into the eyes is the most tell tale sign.. it is the boldest signal we send to another that we are attracted and interested in them. It is the window to our soul and he is allowing you to look into his soul while he is looking into your's. Also, this forms emotional bonds.

[Cordially_]

The problem is, he stops asking me to hang out in between times we meet up... like long periods. As though he gets a fix of my presence then goes away... As for me touching his face, I just think he's being respectful because we're friends and he doesn't want to blow me off or be rude if he pulls away or something...

Grr. I know I shouldn't be analyzing his every move but if it's all make believe in my head that he is interested in me, I want to move on. But if he does like me, I don't want to be anywhere else because he's a great guy.

And I'm a coward so I can't directly ask him if he likes me or not. ='X

[cristal]

what sign are you?? sun/moon/asc?

[Cordially_]

sun gem
moon taurus
venus taurus
ascendant libra
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I know that gem sun & taurus sun are not supposed to be a match. But I've got strong taurus influences... When in love, I love like a taurus. Minus the possessive part. =)

What do you think? thank you for your insight.

[cristal]

I think the moon is important and Venus of course. The moon is your emotional needs and what you crave in a relationship so him being a Taurus he can help you meet those needs..when I looked back at my ex's charts that went well Alot of them had moon in Taurus!! One was a Scorpio and I think that aspect alone kept us together as long as it did..it's nice to have a compatible sun. But I think you really have to view the chart as a whole. Of course if he has Gemini or some air in his chart that will definitely help

[Cordially_]

It's kind of funny that you say the moon (my Taurus) is what i look for in emotional needs... because I tend to attract A LOT of water signs.

Do you think that's why?