Sun Sign Hot Seat: CANCER

[Cusp Of Magic]

Ok CANCER you're now in the hot seat where other sun signs can ask any question they want and any CANCER SUNS ONLY can answer them. PLEASE INCLUDE YOUR SUN SIGN IN YOUR QUESTION. Thanks!

[andreanna]

I'm a Leo .

Exes - are you on good terms with any of them?

Are you all super flirts or do you just not realize it?

Do you tend to stay in a relationship even if you aren't entirely happy with it?

[WildChild]

Exes: Most yes, some no. The one's that Im on good terms with came after time. The one's that Im "not on good terms" with are the ones that were too needy, which was a turn off, so I could care less if I see or talk to them again, and too it might give them the wrong impression. However, if ya burn me, you're gonna get burned back and only after I feel you've felt the burn good and hard and long enough will I let ya back into my life. But, never again on a romantic level..doors shut and locked for good, a lot of them don't get that or realize that though lol

If you were an absolute ass to me, and one where there wasn't a lot of emotional/time investment in, I will make sure that the "do onto other's as you would want done onto you" is properly executed when they least expect it, and most arent expecting that "side" of me. We might have the handy little shells, but we got those pinchers too and Im not afraid to use 'em when someone needs a good little "pinch" of reality ;)

Flirting: For me it's not flirting, it's being nice. Friend's tell me I was flirting with someone, which in my mind I truly wasn't, and I really don't see where they got that from...jeez can't a girl be nice without everyone thinking it's flirting or hitting on someone! LOL However, yes, I will flirt, and I'm fully aware I'm flirting when I do.

Staying in bad relationships: Yes, especially one's that have a lot of emotional and time investments. Hard to let go of the past, good times, etc. Hopeless romantic, and wanna know that I put every part and being of myself into it before I call it quits so that I'll never doubt or question myself that I didn't.

Are Male's cheaters: I'd give a biased opinion that's based only on my personal experience.

[Cusp Of Magic]

I don't know what terms I'm on with my exes cos the relationships usually end by me disappearing and ending all communication (changing number etc.) cos when I decide I'm done, I'm done and I don't want to ever talk or see you again.

Yes I am a flirt but its not purposely it just comes naturally.

Yes. I usually try and see if things will get better before ending the relationship and I don't like change nor having to start over so I try my best to give the relationship a chance but once I see I've done all I can do and its crystal clear things are not going to get better then I will leave.

[CancerKitty17]

completely afree

[Shauntae]

Cancer here:
Ex's and I remain friends if I still got love for them or if there's a chance we can re-untie....other than that when it's done it's over.

I think it all depends on the specific cancer's confidence level. Some are shy and withdrawn and others are too moody to ever be a flirt. Me--yes I am thanks to my Gemini Venus!

Yes I will stay for a while...especially if I think the person has potential...I will become the biggest bitch when not happy though which will become a huge issue.

[Diana Lucifera]

Cancer Sun Cap Moon Libra Ris....Venus/Cancer....Mars/Scorp

My first boyfriend and I still keep in contact sometimes
My recent ex and I have major issues and it sucks my vital energy
I have the capacity to be on good terms, but I definitely don't have a problem cutting people off from my life.

I probably don't realize I come off as flirty as I do. I pull the cute card out pretty much relentlessly. I'm a second decan cancer "The Persuader"

I definitely have stayed in relationships even though I was not happy.....Although I have learned my lesson.
My last relationship really made me check myself and realize these bad cancerian habits. I'd like to believe I am far more aware these days.

[CancerKitty17]

i agree with most of these posts. seems like we cancers are very alike!

[CancerKitty17]

Exes- hate em all. well, ones a virgo and ones an aries. lets just say i only hate them because they forced me to after we split! i have to hate people to keep them away from me/ out of my life.

we are all super flirts and we do realize it/ do it consciously. however i can also be a super introvert as well as super bitch. this applies to many other cancers i know as well. i guess it just depends on our situations- i.e. romantic situation, mood, etc.

and yes i do tend to stay in a relationship. though a relationship is very hard to be completely "happy" for my standards. being so clingy , posessive, controlling, jealous, etc. so most of the time i think im just being too picky! but i stayed in a horrible relationship for four years. now im learning to get what i want.

hope this helps!

[Louise Mulholland]

Exes .....some yes.......some no.........depends on how they are as people ........sometimes they are just not nice people!

Flirts.........yes........i think sometimes we realize sometimes we dont! Its fun:-)

Do i tend to stay in a relationship if i am unhappy.......NO WAY! :-)

[Rie]

Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon, Leo Mercury, Leo Venus, Aries Mars

Exes - are you on good terms with any of them?
All but 2.

Are you all super flirts or do you just not realize it?
Oh believe me....I don't flirt. I either show that I want ya, want ya but don't show it, or don't want ya. I never flirt (intentionally) or have been made aware that I do it. I do know when I'm feeling sexy........ and when I'm feeling it....it shows. How others perceive it is on them. LOL.

Do you tend to stay in a relationship even if you aren't entirely happy with it?
Sure, because some things are workable, but if it infringes on either of our peace and/or freedom I'll end it in attempts to save the friendship (which is the MOST important part to me).

[Alley cat]

Exes- yes, I am friends with my exes

flirts- i am a flirt, but people have accused me of flirting when i was not. i would just be friendly or courteous and they would say i am flirting. makes no sense to me since i would extend the same civilties to other people regardless

relationship- yes, because to be honest most relationships aren't 100% happy 100% of the time. it takes work and sometimes it's dirty. you can't succeed without trying. maybe i'm not happy right now, but that doesn't mean i won't be later on.

[Courtney]

Cancer/Sag Moon/Taurus Rising.

No, I'm not on good terms with any of my exes.

I'm not a flirt at all. Um...well, only when I've had a little to drink, maybe. ;)

Yes, I stay. Waaaay too long. Fear of change? Loyalty? Maybe.