sexual orientation and more!

[polkaa]

i just want to see how many ppl here at sass (whichever sign!) are both/either homosexual/bisexual/pansexual as well as polyamorous.

iv been trying to figure out which sign is most likely to be gay/bisexual etc and/or engaging in open relationships.

personally im a bisexual/poly gemini - and out of the ppl i know, this seem to be mostly in either geminis or sagittarians. other signs have included capricorns (with major aquarian influences) and also pisces and virgos.


HMMM!! but it could be any sign...

Keep my gemini brain busy and tell me:

- your sign
-sexual orientation
- your view on polyamory/ if your poly or not
-ppl/signs you know of who are
- any other comments pls post!

TA :)

[Sexy_Promethean]

It's not based on the sun sign but by other aspects and planets in the birth chart. For example, the moon in the 8th house looks like it is responsible for mine.

Read this: http://astrotribe.tribe.net/thread/86692840-c8d1-41e2-b0e1-9ca38179... This location of the Moon is a partial testimony to homosexuality or bisexuality. In a woman's chart, it may draw her to another woman as a partner. In a man's chart, it may give him the female point of view to the extent that he functions more as a woman than as a man in a relationship with another man. In any case, there is much thinking and feeling about sexuality, and there probably will be at least one peculiar sex-related experience in their lives.

Aries

Women only though I am attracted to men.. just not sexually
If you want to be poly-amorous, go for it. If all people in the poly-amorous relationship are consensual, then I don't see anything wrong with it. I think they do it because they don't like the possessiveness and ownership that can come with a monogamous relationship. Personally, I prefer monogamous relationships.

[polkaa]

hmmm interesting, could be a strong reason in your case

same here too, i dont always feel attracted to males sexually. sometimes i dont even feel attracted to them in otherways either (!) - it seems to take quite alot for me to fall for a male (usually its the personality part being most important), and i have quite high standards for males. picky too... dunno, are females just more loveable ;) ?
and yea w males - after falling for the 1 in a zillion, i tend to have difficulties moving on after a break up though im able to with time

im definitely fearful of all the posessiveness /control/jealousy things. poly means i feel more like myself and i feel , i dont know... 'safer'? or more comfortable than the though of being stuck in one thing...
i never get jealous, barely ever feel jealous over something involving partners. same with friends - i dont get jealous if some of them hang out more etc. its a strange thing, my lack of jealousy

[Sexy_Promethean]

I just recently found that out about the moon in the 8th house (ruled by Scorpio) was responsible for homosexuality and bisexuality. Yes, I am interested in learning what other aspects or planets may have an effect on sexual orientation.

Possessiveness and jealousy do not bother me so much. I actually like it to a certain degree. Possessiveness makes me feel secure. Jealousy... it depends on what it is derived from. For Scorpios, jealousy is derived from desire and for Aries, jealousy is derived from having to be number 1 to their partner. In most cases, jealousy is derived from insecurity and no matter what, the person has to love themselves and feel secure in themselves in those cases.

But it is a green eyed monster I wouldn't intentionally tempt out of a lover.

[Halves of Venus]

I have a sun in the 8th house, and so did my ex.. we both were not bothered at all by homosexuality, though we are straight -- he was a bit on the metro side, but not by much.. I think the jealousy-possessiveness of the 8th house and the inability to sustain a relationship [they just strung one after another] showed on him; however there are times when I have questioned my sexuality, and for a week I believed I was bisexual. I did try to see if I WAS attracted to a woman, but alas.. I wasn't.

[polkaa]

daw ;)

iv felt attracted to girls/women ever since quite a long time ago when the whole gay/bi thing was totally 'laughed' at, you know think back 10 years ago... not easy as an adolescent dealing w all that!! LOL!! thank god its so different these days!!

[Sexy_Promethean]

I have felt attracted to girls and women for as long as I can remember... since I was a kid. I also remember my mother talking about it with my father when I was a kid questioning him if I am gay. lol.

[Halves of Venus]

Well, there are still problems with it, you know, despite the fact that there always have been people and communities who are gay/lesbian/bi throughout history.
a couple of my gay guy friends told me they'd be willing to marry me, which I appreciated (but personally for me.. both of them did a better job at cleaning than I did! I can't compete with my husband like that, I'm very territorial and controlling about my home), and then kind of thought about the idea of what being "homosexual" really is.. like, for instance I am straight.. yet oddly enough, the few times girls have asked me out on dates or hit on me I find it flattering and I get the butterfly in my tummy feeling just slightly. Maybe most people are like that, or what if a number of gay men still do have slight attraction to women and maybe don't realize it? What if people are just merely attracted to common traits of a certain sex rather than anything else.. I like to put myself out there as a strong personality, and of the 2 gay guys who did somewhat flirt with me both of them were more feminine-like.. and maybe that's the same for the opposite.. girls who like girls are attracted to the feminine "softer" aspects that typically are attached to the sex? This all, generally speaking ofcourse..

.. and maybe this could be the answer to my obession with metro men!!! LOL!

[Sexy_Promethean]

That is really cool that you both had you sun in the 8th house.
At least you know yourself and your sexuality. :)

[Pisces.meena]

hmm...pisces/virgo/aquarius influences = trisexual I think lol=) If it feels good I'll probably do it at least once so I try to stay far far away from the booze.
.....I feel attracted to males sexually but I prefer not to have sex with them... there's a story here=(
...Polyamory: it just depends on the person. If the relationship is based on a lighthearted/ friendly interaction. ..then it's fine because I won't feel possessive but on the rare occassion that I actually make a deep & meaningful connection with someone...it's unlikely I'd share my treasure Argh=).

[polkaa]

ahahahaha aaaaaw :) that was so cutely-said (yea i make up my own weirdo vocabulary sometimes)

i dunno . seems like alot more females than i thought dont feel that sexual attraction to males for whatever reason. for me .. i just have strange standards for men anyway . itll take quite alot to become sexually attracted to them. then to be -honest- w myself, i dunno if i really *would* feel comfortable anyway hmm

[Halves of Venus]

Taurus sun
Straight
In regards to polyamory -- I would not involve myself because of my own personal beliefs, but would not be against others who choose to/take a stance against it (I believe it's even more unethical to deny people who consent to that kind of love their rights than what is 'socially'/'ethically' accepted)
I find a lot of pisces to be bisexual/homosexual, my best gay guy friend is Pisces and most of his gay guy friends are pisces or sags. I also find it common in people with gemini placements in their charts.

[polkaa]

!!!!! ditto!!

almost all geminis sagis i know are like that! maybe half of the pisces i know. the rest are just here n there jumping from diff signs. but i bet they have some strong aspects/planetary etc influences though...