Saturn-Pluto Faceoff

[Cusp Of Magic]

I found this article by Cortney Litwin http://blog.californiapsychics.com/californiapsychicscom/2009/11/sa...

Most important, it's time to do some soul searching about attitudes, patterns and people that are part of your life but are holding you back from growing. It's usually best to deal with astrological influences from the inside out, especially if you have a head's up about what's coming. So go inside and ask yourself where you feel stuck. Are you staying in a relationship that's not supporting your dreams and goals? Are you on autopilot in a dead-end job? Are you slogging your way through financial quicksand?


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[VegasGemini]

DUDE I feel this.

Cancer asc. and Venus here...

I spent some time deciding about the people who bring negativity to my life and that I needed to handle it by ridding myself of the "extra baggage." The changes I have made over the summer reflected into the fall and now are starting to show how the rewards reap...it has come back around to clarity for me and I don't regret anything I've done in that regard for a second.

Granted, it was tough saying goodbye to some of the folks I'd let hang around for a while...but in the time I spent by myself I feel like I've come out of it much stronger.

[Cusp Of Magic]

Yep I'm feeling it too. Cancer sun, Aries rising, Libra Mars. Regarding my family and my involvement with my cappy.

[VegasGemini]

It's a postive change for you, yeah? I think it did the Cancer in me some good.

[jasmin jane]

I'm at the beginning of a bit of a self and life transformation at the moment.
Basically I'm trying to transform my whole attitude, which is hurting my relationships and other parts of my life, as well as some other bad habits.
I've got a new job coming up hopefully in the next week so I'm really hoping that will help with a big change.

I have Libra Mars.
and Cappy in Uranus Saturn and Neptune... and I don't know if that means anything though. I'm interested in knowing more...

[Cusp Of Magic]

Yep it appears to be on the positive end but everything is pretty fresh right now but by February I'm sure some drastic changes will have took place. Hopefully an engagment.

[VegasGemini]

Oooh! I'm engaged...we want to be married soon...maybe the tide will turn for us both. :)

I hear ya on the fresh thing, as well...it's almost like, this big sigh of relief I'm taking seems unreal. Like...for once there's no ball I'm waiting for to drop.

[Cusp Of Magic]

Congrats!! and yeah hopefully we'll both have wedding planning stories to share lol.

[VegasGemini]

Thanks! Congrats to you too, hopefully hehe

Well, she and I just want to find a justice of the peace in some quiet corner (God knows there's plenty of them in Vegas haha) and go through with the ceremony, but later on when we can afford it, we'd like to throw a cool shindig. Just a party with the close buds, nothing too elaborate. But the dancing and drinking...you bet :P

[JacQueuf]

yea. cuz that sounds very plutonic and even saturanian friendly. everyones engaged. welcome to saturns transit through libra my friend. maybe the gays will rise up and make this transit something to sit up and pay attention to. may i suggest perhaps not winging the wedding? especially not trying to avoid things that are "too elaborate".. if u want smooth sailing and a vegas wedding id like to introduce u to pluto in sag... there it goes. wave goodbye.

[VegasGemini]

Haha! We're both banquet captains. Honestly we've seen and directed enough of wedding receptions to make us both a bit ill. A lot of it seems fake and not worth it. People spend thousands upon thousands of dollars to have the lace skirting, the perfectly set tables with the little trinkets at each place setting, seating charts, gigantic buffets, the perfectly organized first dance, bouquet toss, yada yada yada...the only cool thing about wedding receptions are the open bars and watching a whole room full of people who get bored for 4 hours or so get stupid drunk when all the formalities are over.

We got engaged in March and didn't set a wedding date. It's not really the priority list kinda thing. Our relationship is said to be Saturnine after composites were done.

I'd rather just drink and jam out all night because really the rest of it seems overblown to me. Nawmean? Pluto in Cap would demand more structure in your opinion?

[Cusp Of Magic]

Yeah I do want an elaborate wedding cos I feel that day will be the most important day of my life but I don't want a mockery being made out of my big day so only close family and friends will be invited. I do feel most people just want to put on a show and not consider the day is really just about the bride and groom. Lots of couples have went to JOP and their marriages are doing just fine. Or another thing you can look into is a destination wedding. Some give free wedding if you stay a certain number of nights which could be your honey moon and you can only include a small number of people so it comes out fairly cheap compared to a traditional wedding.

[VegasGemini]

That sounds actually quite ideal.

We don't see it as a big day, really, because we've been practically married since day one. But circumstances and lifestyles and such will dictate different things. What are some of your aspects? I will definitely accept your friend request, BTW. :)

Steamy ain't come around to tell his/her end of the deal but I wanted to know about Pluto in Cap. I might have to do the research on my own...