Permalink Reply by K. on October 21, 2009 at 1:06am
I'm a Gemini Gal
Air Best: Libra - they are like my soulmates :) We are really similar and can talk for hours and hours and understand each other very easily. I love pretty much every Libra I've ever met. :)
Air Worst: Aquarius - great friends, but a little too disconnected and weird for me to get close to.
Earth Best: Hmm.. Taurus. But I'm not close to many.... most of them are just people I party with. I'm just not close to many Earth signs in general.
Earth Worst: Capricorn (men)- Ugh, just stay away, please. They are sexy, but so domineering and oppressive. I have one Cap girl friend and she's cool, but she's practically an Aquarius (Aqua moon), so she's not so bad.
Fire Best: Sagittarius. My other soulmates of the zodiac. And it's my moon sign, so I'm doubly happy with these guys and gals. Great for a good time
Fire Worst: For sure, Leos esp the men. Too insecure and too egotistical. I always end up fighting with them.
Water Best: My Scorpio boyfriend. <3 Nah, I get along with Cancers best. They are very sweet and sensitive and I feel a natural connection and "homey" feel with them. I like cheery them up and they always bring out my sentimental side.
Water Worst: Pisces - again... not good at all. :( They are super manipulative and rub me the wrong way. I hate two faced people, and the fishies are the most two faced to me. I can see through their games and it's annoying to watch people fall for it.
Permalink Reply by K. on October 22, 2009 at 12:10am
They are insecure for sure and that's what causes their bad behavior, but beyond their shell, they are very soft and squishy and adorable. I love me some Cancers. :)
What about the ones who have gone from insecure to straight cynical?
That's the only kind of Cancers I've known...maybe it's because we're all from the underground and have lived lives with many challenges based on our decisions plus the route we go down alone...
"Underground" means drug culture.
But I tend to believe Cancer isn't soft and squishy. The same Cancers I know that you can hug and care about whether or not they're okay love death metal and will take on anyone and they're not scared. I don't know...must depend on environment. All the Cancers around me are as tough as I am...we just try to maintain...and anger. Lots of anger. Stems from their ability to know so much and can't do a damn thing about it. My Cancer wants to take a walk across the street and get tacos.
"Get Allot" by Young Jeezy. Food for thought, Cancer "mindset".
Permalink Reply by K. on October 22, 2009 at 1:49am
Hm.. Well, I'm not at all remotely aware of drug culture, seeing as I stay away from it.
Cancers have a tough shell and cynicism fits with that. I'm of the view that people are naturally vulnerable and find different ways to protect that vulnerability. Some versions are not as healthy as others, for sure.
I really think Cancers, typically are very sensitive and passionate (which can bring about anger too) which is why they try to seem as opposite as possible in order to protect that.
That I understand. Sensitive and passionate is very true. That is an interesting viewpoint! I'd like to know more about that...
It's odd that we're both sun Gems with Sag moons but our other aspects must different in alarming ways. We seem like opposite ends of a spectrum but one that intrigues me, of course.
And major thumbs up for staying away from that culture...I'm rebuilding from it...but spent several years that way...I will always support anyone who's straight edge. If I could do it all over again I would've made better choices.
Permalink Reply by K. on October 22, 2009 at 2:07am
Haha, well, life experience has to count for something too. And houses play a lot.
I think that the culture and parenting etc can have just as a big effect, if not more on how signs turn out. There are people who have more of the bad parts of their sign and people who have more of the best, right and some have different mixes too, from different moon signs, mercs, and venus, etc. So I think that is the variable.
I don't wanna say I got the worst of my sign...(diversionary tactics, escapism, two sides) but I know what I wanted from my upbringing I didn't get: stimulation.
But man, that's a whole other thing. Maybe something we could bring up in the Gemini forum sometime.
Best Air: Gemini for sure! I attract them like crazy.
Worst Air: Aquarius, I guess...cuz (like K said) they're disconnected.
Best Earth: Taurus
Worst Earth: Capricorn!!!! I do NOT GET THEM (with the intensity of a thousand suns!!!!!!!) I have the most trouble understanding them over any other zodiac sign.
Best Fire: Leo
Worst Fire: Aries
Best Water: Pisces
Worst Water: Prolly Scorpio (but it's because I view them as competition. Haha.)