Making peace with a Scorpio who has moved on?

[BelleoftheBull]

I need some advice. Me and him broke up a while ago but being Taurus, I'm being stubborn about letting him go, he came to get some of his stuff and I threw a tantrum and he just stood their smiling and I realized I was acting like a little kid. So, I know I need to let him go, but I'm really angry about it still. I don't know how to do this. I tried my best with him and he just dipped and kept it moving. He's with someone else now.

I know that deep down, I just want him to be happy, but I can't help but feel angry and frustrated. But I have to move past that someohow. Any tips?

[jasmin jane]

It sounds like a pretty hurtful situation. And I can definitely understand how you'd be feeling angry and frustrated. I think the best thing for you to do in this situation would be to really try and put him at the back of your mind (hard, i know), go out, try meeting some new people, you'll be surprised how quickly you find feelings for someone. And in terms of you and the scorpio, it's better that way too - he will really enjoy seeing those tantrums and how much of an effect he can have on you... so don't give him that display anymore. Do the opposite! Have fun!

[tracy]

Exactly, I just broke up with a Taurus male several mnths ago & some of those reasons was his selfishness,stubborness,being one sided,being in denial about the error of his ways & most of all immature.I don't know you & from the little i've read,please don't take this offensively,but it seems though you have some of those same negative qualities.Stop,take some time for yourself & slowly see what's going on with your inner being & when you do maybe the next scorpio you encounter won't end with him stinging you.

[andreanna]

I just force myself to go out and have a good time. If you aren't having a good time fake it. I mean why give him the satisfaction of knowing how much of an impact he still has on you.

l tend to cut people out without them knowing just because having them in my life is much more hurtful then letting them go. Pack up or throw away everything you have that reminds you of him. Avoid things that make you think of him and do things for yourself like hang out with your friends or buy yourself a present. Just take care of yourself for now and the more you do for you the better you will feel.

[nicolicious]

wow, keep your cool & stop embarrassing yourself. you're only reaffirming why he left you in the first place. Save your dignity & deal with him with grace.

[Sexy_Promethean]

It doesn't necessarily sound like you do want to make peace with him. It sounds like you want to settle a score and you need his validation because you said, So, I know I need to let him go, but I'm really angry about it still.

The more that you give in to him, you only are giving him satisfaction. If you want to get revenge, move on and let go. Be happy and content and date other men. Your success is the best revenge. Use the anger you feel to motivate you to new heights in your career, with the man you truly desire, and with your self. :)

[Shakti]

Road trip?

[Halves of Venus]

I know how you feel. I'm a Taurus, and I can't let go of my Aries man. If he left and is now with someone else, I would find someone else. Revenge is sweet, especially when you're in love with another and he will get jealous. I read your posts before, and is this the same Scorpio that you helped to find a job and helped him pay off his loans? Well, trust me, he won't forget that, and once he realizes you're with someone else he's gonna know what he lost. Don't feel angry. I wouldn't make peace though. I have problems, and keeping people who hurt me "as friends" doesn't work - - even if you try to make peace, the thought of his betrayal will always be in the back of your head.
Yeah, I'm sorry if my post is pretty blunt, but I am a Taurus with Cancer in almost everything else factored in love -- not to mention my sun being in my 8th house(doomed to struggle greatly in love, basically). But it's almost impossible to keep a guy who backstabbed you as a friend, or come to terms, because then he will never learn. The best thing is to act as though he was never in your life and never existed. If you see him, act like you didn't and preoccupy yourself with other things. Make it seem like you're "living the life". He will get jealous.

[Barbara]

You mean, HE broke you up? Because if you used "me and him", you should be able to know how to go on, in spite of your "agriness"? Didn't you agree the end of the relationship?

Was there happiness there between you two?

I want to make sure of this first.