How to make an Aqua Girl suffer?

[dormboyph]

I may sound ungentle man but this is for her own good.

My libra gf has a girl best friend who is an aquarius. This Aqua girl knows about this guy who is flirting with my gf, but she didn't tell me, i only found out when we went to a disco, when they are drunk..

She texted me yesterday if i got home already but i didn't reply. She sent several texts, some asking what went wrong, etc.

My question is: Will it be devastating for her if i suddenly disappear and left her wondering?

In case like this, what can i do to make her mood bad? I told my gf that i'm angry with her bestfriend.

This Aqua girl knows very well that her bestfriend has a bf .. why she still allowed those things to happen? sigh. I heard she has a bf too but i still saw her last night flirting.

Thanks for those who will reply.

[Precious]

IMO, it's not her place to tell you that a guy is hitting on your gf. She's should be involved like that in your relationship. If the guy was flirting wants the big deal? Some flirt some don't, but I don't think it would be her place to tell you that.

[dormboyph]

But this girl is also my friend, she is my buddy now since my gf was sent to somewhere else by her parents. I thought i can trust her. I can sense a lack of loyalty on her. I've been a good friend to her, i didn't tell her bf that she was flirting with my gym-buddy.

I just can't understand that she was able to fool me with this magnitude.

;[

[MrWizard]

Dude my Libra EX GF.. said these exact word.. WELL he slept over next to me rollingover and wanted sex WHAT was i suppose to do!!!!
Who me IM innocent.(libra).Go and have fun do not get emotionally involved she like the chase and excitement..
Bottom line is make the first move of freedom.. No person is worth all your efforts and heart if they dont give a rats azzzzzzzzzzz.

[Angie]

Babe flirting is not the same as rolling over on a dick, his girl might not be cut throat like that, maybe she's a hottie, if so ppl are gonna take notice, she may show some self control.

[MrWizard]

SHE LIKES NEW and having her hand in the cookie jar... Experiments are fun.. and your not married.. so who me im innocent..let her go and walk you will be an emotional mess chasing her and trying to win her..

[VegasGemini]

Most likely losing.

This is perhaps stage 1 in several stages of dude's life. If he starts on a negative path like this he's bound to fail over and over...

[Karen]

Wizard what are you talking about?It sounde dto me like the guy was flirting with Drom's gf, not that *she*n was flirting!
And it is one thing to not rat out your freind, Dorm, but quite another for the Aquarius to upset you by telling you someone tried to come on to your gf.
I'm sure you can trsut your gf did not flirt back.
And, tlaking to someone at a party or dance is not the same as cheating on you .
If you *can't* trust her to go out dancing but not get sexual with someone then that's a different problem.

[Akrabu]

First off, I'm not helping someone plot revenge against one of my own. :-P

Secondly, I get the jealousy. I really do. Seriously. But if some dude was just flirting with her, and she didn't reciprocate... who the hell cares? She came home to you. End of story. If you really feel justified with being angry, then your beef is either with that dude or your girlfriend - not some third party.

Lastly, it really isn't the Aquarian's place to tell you. She's your girlfriend's best friend - her loyalties lie with your girlfriend. Sure, maybe she's your best friend too (this doesn't seem likely, with the way you are acting). If she is your friend as well, then why are you wishing for her to put herself in a position to scorn one her two friends (your gf, or you)? That's hardly being a friend, yourself. If that's how you think, she doesn't owe you a damn thing.

[dormboyph]

But if some dude was just flirting with her, and she didn't reciprocate... who the hell cares?

The bad thing is, being a Libra, my GF reciprocates to the flirt. And this Aqua girl knows that she is reciprocating.

[Akrabu]

Hmmmm... well, yes, that's a Libra for you (generally speaking).

But what truly matters is... did she go home with the guy, or did she come home to you?

It's one thing to flirt. It's a whole other to cheat. I understand being annoyed... but betrayed? You're jumping the gun a bit, I think.

Either way, your beef is with the guy, or your girlfriend. Not the Aqua. It's "friends first" with us - and we don't appreciate being forced to choose one over the other. We won't, if we can avoid it at all. And I don't think it's appropriate to put anyone in that position, regardless of sun sign.

[Eddie]

did she go home with the guy, or did she come home to you?
Thank you so much for putting this in here, that's what it's all about. Dormboyph you are going to have a very hard time with women if you think you have to teach them a lesson and play games every time you feel slighted.

[dormboyph]

Thanks, but i think they deserve it :(