I am a Capricorn that has been married to a Libra for 3 years now. I am a Capricorn with Leo rising, though, so I am much more outgoing and social than other Capricorns. I also want success, but don't obsess about it. I leave my work at work and when I get home I focus on being home. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship. We have been together for 5 1/2 years now. We also dated back in High School and then a little again in College. We've always had a very strong connection: mentally, emotionally, and physically. We rarely fight and we have a ton in common. So I think that Caps and Libras can make it work, but I do think that rising signs can affect the success of the relationship. However, I also do think that if I was a "traditional" Cap, like my other Cap friends, then I think my husband and I would have broken up a long time ago.
I'm a libra, and my relationships with capricorns have always been interesting. I find that capricorns and i always have this unexplained vibe. It feels like we are on the save wavelength but we play completely different instruments. In the beginning that vibe draws me towards them, but ultimately thats also what makes me want out.
My first love was a capricorn. He broke my heart with his mind games. Some capricorns are just too full of themselves, and they know it.
I think libras are secretly masochists haha. Thats why a little capricorn control will keep us fascinated, until our libra selves wakes up and realizes this isn't fair at all!
im a libra too and i was involved with a cap male.....and i seriously didn't believe in the whole star sign compatibility stuff...i mean i knew caps and librans aren't compatible, like they say..but i wouldn't stop a relationship based on this....but hey, i guess my relationship didn't work....yes, i am flirty and a social butterfly compared to my cap guy who was moody, depressive, quiet and a home body.. but we were very sexually attracted to each other....and we had lots in common on a more deeper emotional level..and i actually understood him, so his capricorn traits really didn't bother me,!! and i guess he found me exciting...and kept calling me a 'very hyper' person lol, which i am and like the previous reader wrote..he broke my heartt and played mind games with me emotionally, well by firstly telling me he loved me and wanting to marry me...and then well ending it,, when all things were going well by leaving me unexplained.... i havn't heard anything in 2 months....and i still love this guy...and like the previous reader said 'a little capricorn control' kept me fascinated...although i like things my way and don't like to be controlled..i found him absolutely sexy and irresistable....and i still want him.. and well if only he had 'talked' to me....this relationship could've worked coz i was willing to do anything for him..
I can really relate to your story.
It’s not that I’ve been through the same, but I’m actually kind of afraid that the same will happen to me.
My boyfriend is also a Capricorn and he has 2 children. He cheated on his ex with his first love (a scorpio girl) and left her with their newborn. So I don’t understand why they say that caps are loyal!
OK so he left her for this other girl and then after a year she cheated on him. I say: what goes around comes around.
So when I met him he lacked self-confidence. To help him overcome this I give lots of compliments and I don’t flirt at all. Where together for 10 months now and I must say he’s not jealous at all.
He says that’s because he trusts me. He’s also quite loving ( I have to ask him to say nice things to me once in a while) and the sex is great. He also tell me that he wants to marry me and have children etc. etc. But I don’t trust him at all!
The reason for that is that when I met him I knew he had a best friend. He told me that she’s like a little sister for him. But because of the way she does I started to suspect that more was going on than just friendship. To make a long story short, I found out that they had a sexual relationship. She’s a taurus by the way. So they get along very well.
With me he’s very quiet and sometimes boring, with her he’s completely different. He’s actually very social when he’s among his friends. Laughs allot and seems to have a good time.
So my point is, how can I trust a man that is different when he’s around friends and left his gf for another girl when she has just gave birth?
My biggest problem with me Capricorn BF is that I don’t know who he really is. He always keeps my guessing.
I'm trying to reply to Jessica's post but being on my mobile it won't allow me to post below. I too am a Cap with Leo rising, whats your hubby's rising sign and his moon as well Venus if you don't mind me asking.
I'm trying to reply to Jessica's post but being on my mobile it won't allow me to post below. I too am a Cap with Leo rising, whats your hubby's rising sign and his moon as well Venus if you don't mind me asking.
I am a cap and I am attracted to many libra men. I find them funny and charming, and we have a great sexual attraction. But that's as far as it goes. After that, I find them to wish-washy and indecisive. I need someone who knows themselves and are aware of themselves- and not willing to be someone else when they are around diff people. and one who is willing to go deep with me-otherwords I can't trust them. I do enjoy there outlook on both sides as well, and with some libra men I like that the admit when they are pretentious, but in the long-haul--- this combo never works out for me but I am VERY much attracted to them and do enjoy being around them.
As far as libras as friends- i have a few. My three closest libra friends--- two are shallow relationships, and one is very deep and we really understand one another (she has a cap moon tho). I cant seem to get one of my libra friend to talk about anything BUT drama or what is going on into each others lives. But maybe thats the person and not the sigh itself, because I have know other libra's to talk about multiple subjects.I feel as if most are put into my "fun friends" category, except the one libra/cap moon/aries rising- her and I go way deep and she is one of the most strongest and amazing people I know.
Thanks for the info, Jessica, I agree with it also mattering what your rising sign is (mine is Leo as well) and other things in each others' charts. Ana, you're not a Capricorn nor a Libra, enough said.
Cary...there are tons of warnings in your post that A. you shouldn't have gotten together with him, and that B. you should probably break it off. He had two children, you know he cheated (so what's stopping him now?) you don't trust him (trust you intuition) YOU KNOW he's cheating on you, so what the hell? I'd so be out of there. Also Capricorn men seem to be known for cheating, though any zodiac sign is capable of cheating and being a total scumbag.
I don't know what to do, my guy friend who's a Libra likes me...I like this site b/c there was a lot of truth in it (for me) about Capricorn women. http://fantasyworld.wordpress.com/libra-men/ so it has me wondering if he is actually interested in me or if he's got his feelings mixed up, In his teen, he changed many girl friends because he can not clearly separate loving a friend and loving a girl friend
This couple at least on this site seems to have trouble, or am I wrong? I know I shouldn't judge every relationship like this (through astrology or "bad pairings"). But like some other Capricorn women here, I have my Rising in Leo and also my moon is in Libra.
:< not sure what to do. If I turn him down do you think we could still be friends? I think we can, but I'd have to do it the right way. But if we go out and then break up sometime down the road, what are the chances of us being friends? I value him as a friend.
Sorry for my rambling, my hormones have been messing with me, and this is issue is not helping. Got any positive stories (I know there are a few in here) about this pairing? or just any info on Libra men.