Taurus-Virgo

[Jeffrey Kishner]

Discuss compatibility between Taurus and Virgo Sun signs.

[SuchAVirgo]

I am appalled that there aren't any replies about this combo. This team is the dynamic duo. My taurus friends and I are unstoppable together. Between Virgo and Taurus, there is such a sense of warmth, loyalty, understanding, and commitment. Both signs protect one another fiercely. Taurus physically, Virgo cerebrally. If you ever try to come in between this pair...beware!!! Your attempt will most likely fail, and in the end you'll regret even trying.

[marsey]

I have heard this about Taurus and Virgo but I don't know if it's true in all cases. I am a virgo and have had a few encounters with Taurus and it didn't go very far. My first Taurus was a sexy good gem who was very intense at first and a little possessive (calling all day, wanting to know where I was, what time I would be home,etc.) then as soon as I started to get relaxed he went cold. Said he needed time to think, etc. so I gave it to him. He came back around but then he started with the hot/cold stuff and I told him it wasn't going to work.

Another taurus, I met once but he IMs me all the time. He doesn't call even though he has my #. The one time we met he just sat there like he was afraid to move and barely said a word. He admits to just wanting a FB; nothing that even remotely resembles a real involvement. I am more than a piece of a-- so it is unlikely me and this guy will ever get together either.

So, is there anyone on this site that can explain the taurus weirdness? I like the sensual aspects and how nice they are but this other weird stuff totally overshadows the good things about them.

[Mary Kae]

Man, if you ever figure that out, let me know :) I'm a Scorpio, Virgo rising, and Taurus guys drive me crazy (in a good way). I've had exactly the same hot-and-cold problem as you though. Sorry I don't have any real advice, just sympathy!

[marsey]

Thanks. At least we can commiserate together in our confusion. Seriously though, it helps to know that this hot/cold business seems to be a Taurus trait.

[SuchAVirgo]

?? I guess I should have been more clear in my response. I was talking about my little sister, by best female friend, and my best male friend.

Romantically, I've never had a successful relationship with a Taurus.

oops.

[The Usual Unsuspect]

I knew it! As a Virgo with Capricorn Moon I should stick with myself and be perpetually turned off by my own coldness ;)

Yes, Taureans are a bit different, ruled by pleasure-loving Venus. Virgos and Capricorns are both known for pretty BIG trust issues. Need a lot of time to warm up, but once committed, they take it seriously. Oh, and they usually don't cuddle other people for emotional comfort when things go awry, something that possessive Taurus can appreciate, I believe.

Funny, I was thinking that Aquarians are the "off" ones :)

[Mimi]

I am a Taurus, every Virgo that i meet; man or woman interests me so much! We seem to be on the same planet! There is a silent bond connection that i can explain. This relationship is so understanding you just want to be with them all the time! Ive never met any sign that made me laugh so much! As soon as i meet them i feel that i have known them previously in a different life, its weird but so amazing! I cant explain how much this combination ROCKS! There's so much LOVE! Virgo women are so sweet gentle and funny and they have this presence about them that just light up the room. Virgo men are similar, every virgo man ive met are naturally quiet, there is something untouchable about them, this only makes them more mysterious and sexier! =p There is so much that this combination offers. Just like 'SuchAVirgo' said it - - - Between Virgo and Taurus, there is such a sense of warmth, loyalty, understanding, and commitment =D

[Begin Anew]

I'm a Taurus, and one of my very best male friends is a Virgo Sun (Taurus moon). I seem to be one of the only people who can tolerate him for extended periods of time. We very rarely ever fight, and when we do disagree, we seem to always be able to do so constructively; we don't hold things against one another or get hung up on petty differences. Interestingly enough, our relationship is completely platonic and will more than likely always stay that way. He's like a brother to me! I knew one other Virgo dude, and it was similar with him (non-romantic).

[BabyTaurus]

my first boyfriend ever was a virgo
year 7
i dunno how it even happened, we used to never talk and then the teacher changed seats and i was placed infront of him. then we eventually moulded into one group his guys and my girls. he used to look at me and i noticed but i thought nothing of it. i never thought it woul dhappen

then, it was camp (this seems so childisH) then he was trying to hold my hand and hugged me all the time, he was perfect. i was scared.. i guess cos of my cancer venus and scorpio rising. i backed off n tried to avoid him as much as possible.

then he grabbed me after camp n said "i know this isn't nothing. so stop running from a good thing" HAHAHA it was funny and corny to me at the time cos i was so young but now that i think bout it WAOHA =O anyways, i didn't get to see him much over the holidays so i broke up with him

i saw him again the nxt year and i fell over again haha. he was so hurt by me and for 4 months not a word came outta his mouth to him not even a glance in my direction, then one day after stopping tryin to talk to him at school he said come here and we worked it out. i never admitted gettin scared i just said that i didn't see him so i got confused if it was going to work.

then a week and a half later, i broke up with him again sayin the holidays were comign up and i didn't know n he said but you knew holidays were coming up way before u got back with me, what is the real reeason?

i just said, i dunno that is all i ahve to say.

after 2 months, in comes the virgo again. admittin he still liked me even though he was with my friend, i said it wasn't goin to happen cos i wasn't over pisces. so he broke up with his gf. 2 months later, there he is again, fessin his emotions to me. "i dunno how it happened to me, i thought i had u all out of my system but i don't think u ever will be" this is year 9.

[M.]

Just the way that a Virgo man organizes his daily tasks and make to-do lists is just so hot to me.

So stable.

Hmm. It is also nice to know you can train a Virgo to do things for you.

[BabyTaurus]

yes i agree, ucan train them to do wat u want !!
theres this one virgo that is interested in me.. you should see all the trines!! but we arent even dating and if i tell him to do somethin, hes up and running=)
i love it.
we have an unspoken bond and we have only been talkn for a few months.. he told me even after this short he feels he can trust me and not anyone else??
hes confusing tho, he gives me all signs that he likes me then he pulls back and calls me dude or friend or.. but wen we see each other he follows me around and his freinds ask me to go talk to him alone?

[CaliBeachBlonde]

Oh good! I've been waiting for these two to come up on the main board. I need some advice from the collective as the best way to approach this combination. Chart info below along with the short version of the 8 years-plus story.

Dated Virgo man 8 years ago for about 7 months. Things ended because he was young and didn't want to be exclusive and I cared about him too much to be okay with that and I couldn't stand by and watch him date others and me and feel good about it so we ended things. I was heartbroken but some things you have to accept.

We've remained friends. We've gone out intermittently over the years but there hasn't been anything physical between us since we were dating. He hasn't professed his love for me - but a few years ago, he told me that "he cares too much about me to hurt me" which I interpreted as - "I want to sleep with you but I won't call you the next day."

Recently he has moved less than a mile where I've maintained a residence for the past 18 years. I've had a child by another man (did not marry him) and continued on with my life. Since he's moved closer to me we've been spending time together (going to happy hour, breakfasts with my son, Laker games with mutual friends/couples) on average twice a week and emailing/calling each other every other day.

There has been no significant physical interaction. He will reach for my hand but only for a minute. The kisses goodbye are very "virginal" on his part 'cause they are always on the cheek. He always ends the date with wanting to set something up for next time or later on in the week.

In the past he's had a habit of "falling off the grid" which from what I've read - isn't that unusual. Since November he's been more responsive and "present" than ever. I've learned that If I initiate contact he responds.

Over the past 8 years, I have come to know some of his close friends and our kids even have playdates together. They have told him to "get it over with and marry me already" which is why I think we've been seeing each other with more consistency (he turned 40 last year - he's never been engaged/married and has no children). I think he's trying to get to know me and that's fine - for now-- but eventually I'm going to have to bring up the "talk" (if I wait for him to do it will never happen) because I want a partner in life not someone to just "hang out with" in an asexual way. I care too much about him to have him in my life as "just a friend."

So the million-dollar question is - what's the best strategy for doing so... being my typical blunt self might not work for him so for those of you with a little insight into this sign or this experience perhaps you can offer an alternate suggestion/approach to my dilemma? Maybe even a script perhaps.

I love this man very much and I know he likes me :) I've broken down the charts already if anyone feels like takin' a stab at them since my knowledge of astrology is rudimentary at best.

Mr Virgo

Rising Sign is in 20 Degrees Scorpio
Sun is in 12 Degrees Virgo.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 04 Degrees Libra.
Venus is in 03 Degrees Libra.
Mars is in 19 Degrees Leo.
Jupiter is in 15 Degrees Virgo.
Saturn is in 24 Degrees Aries.
Uranus is in 28 Degrees Virgo.
Neptune is in 24 Degrees Scorpio.
Pluto is in 22 Degrees Virgo.
N. Node is in 09 Degrees Aries.



Me Taurus

Rising Sign is in 08 Degrees Taurus
Sun is in 02 Degrees Taurus.
Moon is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
Mercury is in 21 Degrees Taurus.
Venus is in 24 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 03 Degrees Gemini.
Jupiter is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 10 Degrees Taurus.
Uranus is in 05 Degrees Libra.
Neptune is in 00 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 25 Degrees Virgo.
N. Node is in 10 Degrees Pisces.

Thanks